"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is the first text msg?
What is the first facebook msg?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i usually don't start text gaming until i've atleast gotten a first date. the first text is usually a friendly one reminding her of who i am and how she met me.

something like "hey, it was nice meeting you HB9 at club 911. Get home safe."

i do this so when i do give them a call they'll actually remember who i am and feel like they've already had atleast one conversation with me so i won't be a complete stranger.
 
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Call her, why are you going to take her number when your not going to call it?

Usually in life the more harder road is the most rewading road, it takes more of a man to call a girl than to text her, but she will appreciate you more for it. Its also just plain easier to set up dates on the phone instead of sending an army of text messages to build rapport.
 
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Your first text should always be a request. Same with the first email. People find themselves drawn closer to someone when they have gone out of their way to help them. Yeah, sounds odd as hell. The thing is that in most cases it works. They have invested their time in you and now they are not going to let you just walk away. Think about it. It really does work.

Basically, my success is based on something that American men never do these days. That is lead. That is to make sure that the broads who are spoiled and feminized are the ones to do things for you. The ones who will listen and follow. I suggest you make her call you "The General". Something that denotes power and leadership.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Follow up that night or the next day with a really silly/outrageous text, if she responds then maybe respond to that but then stop for a little bit. A few days later text her and then when she responds give her a call and set up a date.

Every situation is different, though.
 
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