"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok wierd problem...

DJsparky

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Ever since ive been on anti deppresents, due to the fact of chemical in balance, ive been very forgetful. Example: i would read the dj bible and i would forgot most of the stuff even if i read it, i dont have much concentration, is there anything to do to help this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ev3nst3v3n

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get off the anti depressants. meds like that are bad news. find another way to happiness.
 

Wyldfire

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You've got to weigh your need for the antidepressants with how disruptive the side effects are.

You might actually be able to lessen the need for antidepressants by taking supplements instead of medication. You also have to keep in mind that a lot of doctors are rewarded by drug companies for prescribing their medications, which will lead some doctors to prescribe things you might not really need. If you think there is a chance that you might not actually need the medication you should probably seek a second opinion.
 
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