OK which girls would you pick in my shoes, important

[Apfelstrudel]

I'm not gonna try and ramble too much.

I have been a very shy guy most of my life, was teased for being over weight as a kid and so on. Around 14-15 I got in really good shape and was getting very smooth with the girls, just never got to home plate. I moved alot and lost alot of confidence, did alot of drugs and also had this sexual frustration for the sake of art mentality(which is 100% true btw). Now I'm back in amazing shape, my minds in a good place and I need to start a new chapter in my life.


I have that destructive mix of ego and insecurity. I'm a very good looking guy, I really see it firsthand that girls can just go weak at the knees when I'm engaging them. I just for the life of me can not do a cold approach or ask a friend/acquaintance out.

That is going to end. I am going to have a great first full sexual experience this week so here are my options,so help me pick.


girl 1- loved her in middle school, she is cray-cray now, first girl I got high with, did other unmetionables with, first sexual experiences with. again never sealed the deal.
She shut me down at MS graduation which really hurt my confidence, last year she slept over one night, she loves me now and I shut her down, for a while I thought I pussed out,but I realize it was my subconscious getting back haha.

girl 2- also go way back with her, she made advances, I was an idiot. She has a longterm boyfriend, and I would really just like to have a short term fwb, don't want to break things up though and I'm sure she's also sort of pissed that I never made a move after so much time together. Would be way less messy then girl 1 and she has a much better body (now) that I know would be more enjoyable to mess around with.

girl 3- was a good friend of girl 1, always thought she was just wayyy out of my league, cause I've just always been an idiot. she's a free love hippie type of girl, first breasts I ever saw. Of the 3 she is on the same mental plain as me. Which I don't know is a good or bad thing. She lives a couple hours away, isn't a huge issue however.

So all these girls have gone downhill and me the other direction. I really wouldn't have to do any game, just get a pair and ask if they want to get down to the dirty stuff. I do think it would be pretty stupid to go back to girl 1 yet again, but part of me feels like it would almost be poetic and I'd just get it out of my system. same with the other 2 girls, it's just like and can do it and be done with it.

2 other options

girl 4- sexy british girl, she's older and a dj, I was smitten by her when I first saw her about a year ago. We have hung out multiple times, she is clearly into me as well but aside from always saying the stupidest sh*t, there has always been an endless supply of c*ckblocks, untill recently.
She's going back to the UK in a month, I happen to be going there in the summer. We have already made arrangements for her to show me around. Idk if I should try and make something happen before hand, we've never hung out alone and there is a very strong sexual tension between us. I feel like I'm not ready for her yet, but also why go for French's when you can have Grey Poupon.

girl 5- cold approach, just some girl I have no emotional ties to, can use fake name if I fell necessary and just spit my horrible game and still end up getting somewhere, just because I know it'd happen.



Sorry for a long first post, this was an exercise for myself, based on my writings I'm leaning toward girl 3 and 5, girl 4 is really what I'd like, but I don't want to screw things up on the other hand, might need to have a freebie round first. I'm honestly more worried about everything leading up to sex, I feel once I'm there, my body will just be like "about time dude" and just go ham.


Give some opinions on who you'd go for....

I will have to go through with this now, I can't let all you bros down

 

[Mike32ct]

#5. Get the experience from someone outside your social circle.

 

[Purefilth]

#6 All of them. either one at a time, or all together

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

Do a little research here and on other forums about how to deal with multiple girls.

Some of the women you list you might be able to "date" and be on the regular, others you probably should just manufacture a way to bang (though also do that with those you'd like to be more regularly with).

If what you say is accurate, there's no reason not to be working an angle with all of them and see them all through if you can.

You'll have fun and your confidence will sky rocket, which can carry over to continued gaming. Be strategic, have a plan, know when to be bold versus aloof versus leading, but subtly.

However, unless handled well and you give any the wrong impression to them, there will be fallout (though probably nothing that can't be handled easily). Deal with each girl appropriately toward your intentions.

You, if you are right, are in a state of realizable abundance, which, whether managed poorly or well, is a great learning experience. Game the whole damn thing.

Get to work and good luck

 

[floydb25]

Been in your exact same shoes before... definitely realize your potential and go for it... you're not fat and shy anymore... eliminate fear and realize who you are now - then act the part... and dont listen to people who might say you're ugly, etc... thats just ego and jealousy aka hate.

 

[Trump]

Aren't you putting the cart before the horse? These amazing girls haven't even said yes to being alone with you.

That said, unless you are looking for an ego stroke or drinking buddy, pick the one that will likely have sex with you.

 

[Apfelstrudel]

Aren't you putting the cart before the horse? These amazing girls haven't even said yes to being alone with you.

That said, unless you are looking for an ego stroke or drinking buddy, pick the one that will likely have sex with you.

I guess I am, thing is, I'm a really good musician and all these girls know it, that's a game changer honestly. And see this is a talent I could really be exploiting, so easily, I'm just not ready for the expectations with that honestly haha.

all I would have to say to girl 1 is let's finally have sex, she already said she'd be my groupie. My hesitiation is she'd pull some koo-koo banana tricks along the way, because she's like that.

I feel like I could be most open about my inexperience with girl 3 , just tell her, "I want this for learning experience, let me know how to get better" and all that. It could be better then a random imo. She also lives far enough away where I would have to deal with any bad aftermath(very unlikely though).

Honestly I don't even have an ego in the traditional sense, I had an ego break on a trip, which is something I was wayyyy to young for and really screwed me up. I might be coming across like it, but it's more like a rooted confidence in who I am, which has taken me a while to build back up. I have no social ego at all, it takes me going against everything my brain is telling me to initiate conversation, to anyone. That's some weak pathetic sh!t and I hate it. I have really been making a change though now that I'm not doing drugs and eating crazy healthy. Now time to step it up another notch.


I'll keep you guys posted