Ok What is the rule on this girl gives me sings then backs up

[Plain & Simple]

Ok so ive been working for two weeks at 7/11 now, and there is this girl i work with.

I went in that job with the mentality of not giving a fuk about non of the females i work with, and still do as of right now, but this girl started flirting with me like a few days into me starting that job, at first i totally ignored her, i mean totally, she was the one that started to talk to me and flirt and whatnot, still i gave her quick answers and no type of convo.

Lately, she has been flirty flirty, with me. Like im just quiet minding my businesess and she pops out and she always comes with some flirt talk, like today i was cleaning my sneakers and she pops out and says "oh your gf doesnt want u to get them dirty" I was late one yesterday she says " how come u was late, u was at your gf house" i received a call one time she says "who was that your gf" when i finished talking and texting she says "oh so she finally gave u a chance to do ur work.

yall see wat im saying, also she says things like : U went out this weekend? who u was with ur gf? or u live by urself? and many more like that.

another quote from her "where did u go , did u go to honeys? (honeys is a famous strip club) i bet u went to honeys"

Like today she pops out and says " you gonna buy me this candle right? ofcourse i laughed it our at her face.

but lately ive said f it let me give it a chance, ive tried to give her hints that i wanna hit it, since she was saying all this flirty things so one day she told me "im going to the bathroom" i said "can i come? " she just laughed a shocked, laugh and just kept walking.
Also i was going in the cooler she asked me where u going, to the cooler, " i said "yeah wanna come with me" She said no with a nasty look in her face" that kinda got me , and today at the end of the day she was asking me if im going out tonight and whatnot, i said no cause i gotta wake up early and somebody would have to wake me up i asked her " are u gonna wake me up" she said no with a hell no look in her face.

So i dont get this girl, she says things like she wants to fuk, but then when i try to reply and give the hints back, she just "rejects" them making me think the opposite, so i dont get it, the more i ignore her the more she gives me hints and when i try to flirt back she gives me the cold shoulder.

How should i approach her? i was gonna ask her out, but to be honest with yall i really dont give a damn about her, i just wanna fuk and that thought only came to mind once i saw her flirting behavior towards me, but when i try to initiate something she puts up a brick wall.

By the way she dont act like that with nobody else but i dont get her. what is she doing?

 

[Plain & Simple]

well replies are appreciated

 

[stalluproar]

First of all, you ignored her from the start and she seemed to be attracted to you. Then you stopped doing the things that attracted her by showing interest. Now the interactions seem colder. Instead of showing interest, accuse her of hitting on you. Stop being direct with your inuendos. Instead of asking her to come with to the cooler, say, "What? You are going to follow me back there to fulfill one of your fantasies." Then walk away and let her get sexually frustrated by your comment. Oh, and why would you ask for her to wake you up? If I was a girl and heard that comment, I would get creeped out.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Don't pick up chicks at work. That's all i gotta say.

 

[stalluproar]

Yeah I agree.

"Don't stick your dink in company ink"

 

[DjDreamer]

Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Don't pick up chicks at work. That's all i gotta say.

Exactly... Plain & Simple... don't sh!t where you eat... this week you create a thread about a co-worker flirting with you and if you give in to temptation then next week you just might start a thread about you seducing some other hot chick resulting in your co-worker getting jealous and your job becoming a living hell...

 

[penkitten]

dating co workers always ends bad.
have fun and flirt, remember what will you do after you break up?

 

[Evangenlion]

Plain & Simple....your flirt was just like your nick Plain & Simple.
Flirting like that will get you castrated lol.

anyway, she flirted with you cus she wanted to break your beatch barrier lol

now that its broken, you mean nothing to her anymore.

but it could have gone your way if u just flirted her in the right way.

about dating co-workers..... its 7/11 for god's sake who cares.

 

[Plain & Simple]

^^ yeh thats what i was thinking too, but it is still my job and how i make my money now so u know...

but i i can really see that she did that to break that "barrier, or silent treatment towards everyone" that i had, but watch ima put it right back up, today when i go back to work in like 30 mins, ima act like my first day.

If she flirts ima act like i aint even hear it, and if she flirts in a way where i have to answer, ima give her some straight up dry answers, watch how she starts wondering what has gotten into me.

Plus thats how i am anyway, if u flirt with me and give me signs that u wanna fuk, and then when i try to make some moves and whatnot u put up a front, ima just ignore your ass and your flirty ways.

Ill update yall when i come back tonight.

 

[Plain & Simple]

oh and yesterday this fine ass female came in and she i could tell that she wanted to talk to me, but i didnt cause of my co-worker, stupid me, and at that 7/11 there is only 1 real good looking female that comes in on each shift, i lost my chance yesterday, but i dont care no more im talk to whoever i want to regardless of if she is working with me or not.

Lol i cant wait until later today i hope some fine females walk in, and she sees me trynna get their digits.

i have officially moved on from this chick.

Now that i think about it this is the first time that i actually really NEXT a girl right away, now i know what the real feeling of nexting is lol:cheer:

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

Originally posted by penkitten
dating co workers always ends bad.

Not true. I dated a co-worker for a little while, she broke it off, and work hasn't changed a bit. It depends on the scenario, and the maturity level of the people involved. If y'all are working at 7-11, I'd say stay away because that would more than likely, but not necessarily, end bad. Is it worth it to take the chance? Only you can answer that.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

This chick kinda reminds me of an attention wh*re...... she's looking for validation and trying to get him interested but the second he makes a move or in this case, hints that he's interested....she blows him off. It feeds her ego, and that's all she wants.

 

[Plain & Simple]

^^true.

Today i totally flipped on her and it worked lol, like i showed no interest in her at all, she made the same flirty comments i ignored a few of them and replied regular other times i replied flirting back, but i was eyeing every fine female that came in and making comments in front of her in paying her no mind at all, and it worked.

the manager called and said that i have to come in tomorrow on my day off, she said "so tell your gf that u cant make it and gonna be late" normally i would say i got no girl, today i said, "yeh u right on that one" but when i got her was here.

I thru on a jacket to go do some stocking in the cooler, and the jacket had all her perfume odor over it, so i had it on for a few, then i brought it to her attention i said, "this is ur jacket uh" while i was walking away, she said " why" i said "cause it smells like you all over" as i went to the back and i was taking it off, she said "what" she dman well hear me she just wanted me to repeat it so i said it again clearly, she literally ran back and said "oh u gonna get in trouble when u get home huh" i said " hellll yehh" i can tell she was in shocked .

From that point she tried to play off the rest of the day as if she was cool , but i could tell that she was ticked off at my actions for the rest of the day, she even left me at the register alone withlike 10 people on line, and she was in the back on the phone.
She also saw me dumping a bag in the garbage with old stuff in it, she didnt say nothing at the point, like 1hr later she said what i did with the bag and if i had thrown it in the garbage, i said yeah, she said that i had to go get it from the garbage cause that aint supposed to be thrown out.

I was pissed, i didnt say a word though, i just got it back from the garbage, i had a mad look in my face and i know she noticed it, so she said that, that bag aint supposed to be thrown out, blah blah blah, once she saw the look i had.


its been a good day though, this aint nothing but an Attention bitc