"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok, what do i suggest?

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Desire

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I've read this forum alot and tonight I was out at a bar and spoke to a sweet russian lady (probably around 40 years old. I'm 40 years old.) I felt that she was interested. She has an education as a designer (clothes). She is not working right now. She has moved to norway from russia. (probably been married before, but now live on her own.)

So what shall I do now?
My suggestions:

1. Send her a sms in a day or two and suggest doing something together? (What shall we do?) :)

2. Call her and ask her to come to dinner at my home?

3. Ask if she would go out for dinner and dance with me next weekend?

I'm a bit nervous about this one :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dr Box

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Call her, but dont ask her out to dinner....every other afc does that.....try taking her some where fun....i.e just take her dancing make it casual my fav is just drinks some where.....having said that if you say it with enough authority you could probably take her any where....good luck
 
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