"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok, what do i suggest?

Desire

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I've read this forum alot and tonight I was out at a bar and spoke to a sweet russian lady (probably around 40 years old. I'm 40 years old.) I felt that she was interested. She has an education as a designer (clothes). She is not working right now. She has moved to norway from russia. (probably been married before, but now live on her own.)

So what shall I do now?
My suggestions:

1. Send her a sms in a day or two and suggest doing something together? (What shall we do?) :)

2. Call her and ask her to come to dinner at my home?

3. Ask if she would go out for dinner and dance with me next weekend?

I'm a bit nervous about this one :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dr Box

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Call her, but dont ask her out to dinner....every other afc does that.....try taking her some where fun....i.e just take her dancing make it casual my fav is just drinks some where.....having said that if you say it with enough authority you could probably take her any where....good luck
 
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