Ok, This is bothering

[kegger]

Ok, well I mentioned this in another post of mine but it was hidden among other stuff and I did not get the response I need about it. I myself am 16 and a sophmore in high school. I really like this girl, looks older than she is, but she is 13 and in the 7th grade. Now I will be 17 a couple months before she turns 14. Now I know she likes me and she knows I like her back. There are two things keeping me from asking her out, first she was flirting with one of her ex's (who now has a gf) but I think she was doing this only doing it to get back at me becuase I went off and talked to some other friends and she thought I was gone to long. But what is really bothering both of us, is our age. She has a note for me, I have not yet seen it yet becuase it has to get to me first, but we will see each other Saturday I hope and maybe we can work on this but I want your ideas on what to do. I know some say not to date younger or even Jr. High girls, but I swear if fait exists this is it. I saw her, asked my friend if he knew her, she turned out to be the best friend of another friend of mine. Just the ways things have been working out seems like fait but I really need to know if I should go for it or let it go. You might also want to know I do not plan on letting it go, you are going to have to do alot of talking to change my mind, but I really need help with this, it is sure bothering me. Kegger

 

[Ace of Flames]

wow... thats...... really young. i remember 7th grade girls...... didnt do much for me then, and im sure it wouldnt now. ah well, different strokes for different folks.

about that whole getting back at u thing: wtf man. u cant have friends? "she thought i was gone too long" wah, my bf is gone for 5 minutes, he's leaving me!!! thats a red flag if i ever saw one. is she super clingy? maybe because she's so young, or because she nabbed a high school guy. i guess nothing is more self-esteem building than a bf/gf in high school, for a junior high kid at least.

dont trust fate. fate can turn on u. fate plays nasty tricks. fate is a crutch. people have stuff going for them, and then it all goes south, and they blame it on fate, instead of facing their problems themselves. fate is crap. and next time u post, try and spell it right.

 

[kegger]

Well first off it sounds young, but when I first met her I quessed her at 15. Now you must believe I am not planning on going all the way until she is 16 becuase in the state I live in it is statutory rape until that age, I am really not into prison. She was upset I feel and her friends feel becuase we are not yet going out but she came to get to know me better and I was not talking to her instead I was talking to my other friends and skating. I really think this could work out but need some of your ideas.

 

[kegger]

Any other sugestions? I really have no clue what to do except take things as they go. What do you think?