"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The_Reaper

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I met a girl today, got her email (actually she asked me for mine first), and she gave me her name. She's Russian. I remember thinking, nice name, remember it (I always forget names godammit), and guess what i've forgotten it. It would have been easier to remember if it wasnt a damn russian name. But she wrote down her name - it's "Yevgeniya". Does anyone here know how to pronounce it?? She shortened it down to something - I think it sounded like uu-gee-aa. Maybe that's it. But I don't wanna get her fukkin name wrong when I see her 2mro. I'm not expecting much help, and that's understandable... (maybe u could give me some tips for remembering names?)
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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yev-GEN-yə .... say quickly


She'll be insecure about her name, have fun with that. She'd expect something simple, like dinner or movie, anything else and she'll be insecure about that too. Is this in MIA or NY? Lots of russian places in both.. Her soft spots will be money, and perhaps citizenship. Ask her straight up are you a US citizen, if says anything other than a straight yes, then it's a no, flirt with her, let her know that if no pvssy then nothing will happen.
 
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