Ok. this ain't a whine thread, but damn i'm confused

[BlackMack177]

ok, to start this off, I have been working on improving myself after a bad break up 3 years ago. Since then I have made loads of progress. I have trimmed down (still no 6 pack, but very muscular and strong. 6 pack is almost in). I have been studying up on game i order to not make the same mistakes again and have an over all better life, not just sex life. I joined MMA classes since then and have loved it. so fr my record is 0-2, but i'm working on becoming the best fighter I can be

I like to think i'm a decent guy. i'm not bad looking at all (I've been told i'm pretty good looking). The problem is that with all this work, i only seem to get positive attention from fat girls. whether it be online or in real life. Fat chicks are the only ones who express interest. I've been only going after hot chicks and got blown off as soon as I expressed interest by some, and just flat out ignored by others.

I'm can do better than a fat girl. I work on my body too much in order to settle for someone who's too lazy to walk down the street to the corner store. My physique gets a lot of compliments and I've eve had people try to endorse me as a athlete because i look like one. But even with a good body I can only attract fat chicks??? this doesn't seem right

I'm wondering if the problem is with my looks? or is it my game? I think maybe these girls don't find me attractive at first because if they did then game wouldn't matter much. I tend to do great once a chick lets me in, but my only problem is getting in to begin with. How do I attract fine chicks form the get go so I can work my magic? I'm tired of fatties

 

[ProDJ26]

What you resist persist

Hit the gym gain a few pounds of muscle and don't worry about it so much. I used to have the same issue but now fat girls don't even look my way

 

[BlackMack177]

What you resist persist

Hit the gym gain a few pounds of muscle and don't worry about it so much. I used to have the same issue but now fat girls don't even look my way

dude. muscle isn't my issue. believe me. I'm pretty buff already. right now i'm trying to shred the fat in order to bring out the more ripped look while keeping my muscle.

I just didn't build muscle for the ladies. I mostly lift in order to get stronger. I don't really care about being pretty so much as strong. But I thought having muscle would make things easier. In some ways it has, but I still get more attention from fat chicks then I'd like, and hot girls don't seem anymore receptive of my advances then when I had a pop belly

 

[Iceberg]

These girls see that you're on your way up, but you're not at your peak yet. So they're trying to snatch you up before you realize your full potential, and end up totally out of their league.

It's like you're an up-and-coming baseball prospect. You're good, but nobody knows how good you can be. So, you got your eye on the Yankees, but the Oakland A's are trying to throw you an offer...just to see if you're dumb enough to join their team.

If girl's are digging you, that's a step in the right direction. All you gotta do is keep swinging. Eventually you'll work out the issues in your game, and find a system that works for you.

 

[Trump]

I like to think i'm a decent guy. i'm not bad looking at all (I've been told i'm pretty good looking). The problem is that with all this work, i only seem to get positive attention from fat girls. whether it be online or in real life. Fat chicks are the only ones who express interest. I've been only going after hot chicks and got blown off as soon as I expressed interest by some, and just flat out ignored by others.

I'm can do better than a fat girl. I work on my body too much in order to settle for someone who's too lazy to walk down the street to the corner store. My physique gets a lot of compliments and I've eve had people try to endorse me as a athlete because i look like one. But even with a good body I can only attract fat chicks??? this doesn't seem right

I'm wondering if the problem is with my looks? or is it my game? I think maybe these girls don't find me attractive at first because if they did then game wouldn't matter much. I tend to do great once a chick lets me in, but my only problem is getting in to begin with. How do I attract fine chicks form the get go so I can work my magic? I'm tired of fatties

1 - You're too nice and giving. Overweight girls often have low self-esteem, they get a great boost on their self worth when they hang out with you.

2 - You have to work your way up to the top of the pack. Start at bottom, then move up. No one becomes an NFL quarterback overnight.

3 - Sell yourself. You can't be that great if no hot girls have picked you.

Getting in is part of society rules, you have to make the connections yourself. No one can do that for you.

 

[BlackMack177]

1 - You're too nice and giving. Overweight girls often have low self-esteem, they get a great boost on their self worth when they hang out with you.

2 - You have to work your way up to the top of the pack. Start at bottom, then move up. No one becomes an NFL quarterback overnight.

3 - Sell yourself. You can't be that great if no hot girls have picked you.

Getting in is part of society rules, you have to make the connections yourself. No one can do that for you.

I feel you on the too nice thing. but I've always been a nice person. I don't won't to be an *******, but I don't want to be too nice either. Maybe If i put myself out there more i'd get more attention from hot chicks

I have been with hot chicks and still have some. My FBuddy is reasonably attractive now and my ex girl was pretty sexy. By besides those two It's been fat or 'thick' girls. Most of them was back when I was chunky myself.

I just think I should be further along then where I am now.

you're right tho. Will definitely work on selling myself

 

[thevilittletroll]

its your attraction game that you are lacking. your looks really dont have all that much to do with it. just keep working on your attraction game and keep practicing on all the hot girls. the reason the fatties like you is cause your attitude towards them is that you are out of their league. you need to use that same mentality when gaming the hot ones. keep practicing, you'll get it eventually.