Im going out with this chick in a few days.. we decided it would be better to go out during winter break since we'd have time. She has 2 jobs and school, and im busy as well. Thing is, she is 28, im 18... she works at a bar and drives. I dont drive but i do have money. What would be an alright date for us seeing as how I dont drive and she is much older than me. And how will i go about getting her to pick me up? Say something like "How about, you pick me up, and ill pay for [insert date here]" ? I know its not good to call up wishy washy, i need ideas on what to do in this situation here. We're out in the mountains so there really is not much to do... parties, drinks, movies, her place, my place.. i dunno, Advice please...
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Ok, the time is coming soon. What should i do?
- Thread starter D4H
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Figure out what you want to do with her beforehand. Hit up a party, chill and watch movies at her place or your place, whatever. Just be like "I dont have a ride, would ya mind giving me a lift?" in a funny way would work nicely. Never say that you'll pay. Just do it. When its time to pay, if you would like, you may pay, and when you see her reaching for her purse just be like "nah you gave me a ride, i'll pay" or whatever. And as for the age, age aint nothin but a number.
Bump!NewMan
Master Don Juan
say something like - "let's go and do XYX - you fly I buy."
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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OddTech
Senior Don Juan
Dude, who gives a rat ass who drives or not? No one cares, and you shouldn't either. Stop dwelling on the little things.
Go find something YOU like to do and just invite her along. If it's close to your house, tell her to swing by. Or if it's in Downtown or whatnot (e.g., movie), then take public transportation and meet her there. If you want to go to a place that needs a car, then ask her to pick you up. It's THAT simple.
Go find something YOU like to do and just invite her along. If it's close to your house, tell her to swing by. Or if it's in Downtown or whatnot (e.g., movie), then take public transportation and meet her there. If you want to go to a place that needs a car, then ask her to pick you up. It's THAT simple.
bump yo mama fool, it's already in da books you both are out for a fling.. it's all good though. 28 - 18. woman to man.. doesn't work that way for man to woman thing though! she will teach you the ropes and ****!
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.