ok some advice REALLY needed

[OddManOut85]

so like i have said before,i meeting that girl tomorow.i went out,got a haircut,bought some clothes,got some new cologne.i like this girl.i want to do as much as i can to increase her interest in me.so what can i do? ive been reading through the advice like crazy to get some tips,eye contatc,kino,using body language,etc.i mean shes obviously already interested in me if she wants to go out.so how can i keep it? what can i do? what has worked for you? i figure we will go out with a few drinks,and take it from there.i want to end with at least a kiss close.what can i do to assure that? i am feeling a tad nervous,but im trying to stay cool.any advice is appreciated.

 

[penkitten]

being nervous or over excited is a turn off.
chill out and tell yourself that shes just a girl and no matter the outcome, the date will be interesting

 

[playboy_supreme]

from readin your post you just lack experience. no matter what people tell you. nothing will help you except experience. firstly realise that you will LIKE alot of girls but also realise that they are just practise for now while u enhance your game. go out on the date relax be cool. you WILL NOT get it perfect and trying to be perfect will make you look fake. after more and more dates with either the same girl or different you will naturally become more confident and know what to do. then you start applying technical game on them etc etc.

as for tips. do a search on eye contact. you should know that is one of the most important tools. and kino. you can try things like take aways etc. you have her on the date so you know she likes you to some degree so relax and be calm.

 

[OddManOut85]

well,im trying to stay relaxed.I mean,i plan on staying cool and calm the whole time.well,its not that i lack experience,im just a behind.i mean ive been able to meet chicks before and all went well.no matter what the outcome was.its just with this im a bit nervous.i dont plan on trying to make it look perfect,i just want things to go well.well thanks for the advice.i mean,thats the thing,i want to increase her interest.

 

[Trapper]

to increase her interest, you gotta hold the conversation enjoyable.. you should not bore her..listen more talk little...pay attention to her sayings.. make jokes with her and tell her some funny stories which you had, whatsoever. ..and dont expose your personality, keep it mystery.. good luck.