"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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OK, so women suck (both ways) - what can you do?

Oxide

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See John, right now I don't know what I want. I am sort of in the no mans land - I've had enough girls where I don't really care yet I do sometimes wish for the good connection - yet fully knowing that I will get bored of being with the same girl rather quick.

And "just bang hors" is a horrible strategy in my opinion. To me a hor = will fvck anyway so you are not that special by tagging her. I want to feel some kind of sense of accomplishment when I get here - I want to put in the work in the sack knowing that I want her to like it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Babnik - where are your success stories and date journals??

i think you are a very frustrated man who isnt WITH IT when it comes to reality and women
 
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