"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok so who's transferred colleges?

FreeStyleZ

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I want to transfer colleges but i'd be a junior at a new school.. or maybe a sophmore if I lost credits by the transfer. My question is... has anyone here transferred to a new school where they knew absolutely nobody? Were you able to meet new people just as easily as when being a freshman? I worry that as a transfer it will be harder to meet new people because people already know everyone else by that time (being a junior). Unless ofcourse you wanna be hanging out with freshmen. I'm a pretty social person but haven't had to make new friends in an environment where everyone already knows everyone else... does anyone have experience with transferring? How did it go?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't worry dude, I'm technically a second-semester sophomore now (though a third year, thus Junior status), and I'll be transferring after this semester. I'm currently on the east coast, and I'll be transferring to a school on the west coast, in California to be exact.

I won't know anyone there...but it won't be tough meeting people. Make sure you live on campus, I doubt it would be tough...Just be a social person and get to know tons of people, it can't be any easier than that.

When I transfer...If you're going to do so after Jan06, then I'll keep you posted on how well I'm adjusting and meeting new people, etc.

Good luck.
 

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Thanks man, i'm trying to transfer for next semester too. I was just wondering if it would be more difficult transferring as an upperclassmen, meeting people as a freshman is easy.. people literally come up to you and ask YOU to hang out. Freshman year was fun :)
 
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I have transferred three times now. Working on graduate degree at A..s.u.

You sound like a cool cat. Just hang loose and talk to people before and after class.

Study sessions are great ways to meet cute chicks too.


Good luck.

peace
 
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