"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok, so I'm doing a project with these three girls...

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Tboneman

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Ones a 6, the second's an 8, and the third's a 9. Now, For the record, I'm not excatly Mr. Interesting or Hot for that matter, but since the three of us will be working together for awhile, what should I do to make them think "Damn, that guy is pretty sexy!"?

For the record, when we first got the assignment, we were allowed to choose our groups. The 9 turned around to me and said "You're working with us!", though I think that has to do with my intelligance more than anything. I guess I'll have to show them that there's more than a big brain, eh?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if your working on it at someones house, just be chill. i mean do kino and all the other stuff, but since you seem to have plenty of contact, dont rush it. ive been in a group where another guy tryed to get a girl in our group, but thats all he tried to do. after a while she got pissed that he wasnt pulling his weight and that was it for him. Just be relaxed around em.
 
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Just show them that you're funny. Don't be really goofy or anything, but keep them laughing. Since you're the "brains" of the operation, take control and show them that you're not a push over and intimidated by them.

Like chill said, just relax and have fun with it.
 
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