"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok so do you guys actually get laid? SERIOUSLY??

Brighty

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Honestly, I don't buy into the "hooking up with as many girls as possible and being a player" mentality that a lot of the newer posters at this board try and strive for. If that's your thing, go for it, more power to you, it just seems shallow and really sleazy in my opinion. Rather, I take some of the more intricate advice this website and some of the more veteran posters offer about improving your inner game, improving your confidence and who you are as a person, and adopting the general mindframe of the "go-getter" mentality for all of the aspects of my life to live my life to the fullest and be successful.

Yes, some of my friends think I am a womanizer, and I "get the girls", but that's just because I am outgoing, good looking, and girls just naturally are drawn to me. How many girls have I slept with? I'm 19 years old and I can count them on one hand. How many opportunities have I had? A lot, it's college. Does it bother me that I haven't? Not really. I just find a lot more satisfaction in hooking up with someone that I have feelings for than a random drunk hookup. May sound gay to some of the newer people on this forum, but then again they're the same guys that are using planned routines and over-analyzing the game and having paper-thin relationships with women when they could be improving themselves in other ways.

Since I've discovered this forum, I've developed a passion, improved myself spiritually, drastically improved my confidence and inner game (went from being the guy everyone picked on in HS to dating the same school's "golden girls"), starting appreciating myself more, and I am so grateful that I found this site early on in my life as I'm still learning new things every day from here. And to me thats way more meaningful than laying random HB10s (and only a handful of people on this forum have even gotten with a real HB10). I'm trying to live like an alpha male, and I've learned that being an alpha male doesn't mean you hook up with a million chicks before you die, rather, it's a way of living.

Then again that's just my two cents.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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teacha said:
Ok next quick question, does anyone here think getting laid or getting a girl's number is an accomplishment?
It all depends on what the guy wants and what his history is with women. For some men getting laid is no big deal. If I got laid trumpets would sound and the four horsemen would descend from the sky.
 

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Brighty said:
Honestly, I don't buy into the "hooking up with as many girls as possible and being a player" mentality that a lot of the newer posters at this board try and strive for. If that's your thing, go for it, more power to you, it just seems shallow and really sleazy in my opinion. Rather, I take some of the more intricate advice this website and some of the more veteran posters offer about improving your inner game, improving your confidence and who you are as a person, and adopting the general mindframe of the "go-getter" mentality for all of the aspects of my life to live my life to the fullest and be successful.

Yes, some of my friends think I am a womanizer, and I "get the girls", but that's just because I am outgoing, good looking, and girls just naturally are drawn to me. How many girls have I slept with? I'm 19 years old and I can count them on one hand. How many opportunities have I had? A lot, it's college. Does it bother me that I haven't? Not really. I just find a lot more satisfaction in hooking up with someone that I have feelings for than a random drunk hookup. May sound gay to some of the newer people on this forum, but then again they're the same guys that are using planned routines and over-analyzing the game and having paper-thin relationships with women when they could be improving themselves in other ways.

Since I've discovered this forum, I've developed a passion, improved myself spiritually, drastically improved my confidence and inner game (went from being the guy everyone picked on in HS to dating the same school's "golden girls"), starting appreciating myself more, and I am so grateful that I found this site early on in my life as I'm still learning new things every day from here. And to me thats way more meaningful than laying random HB10s (and only a handful of people on this forum have even gotten with a real HB10). I'm trying to live like an alpha male, and I've learned that being an alpha male doesn't mean you hook up with a million chicks before you die, rather, it's a way of living.

Then again that's just my two cents.
You read my mind.
 

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teacha said:
Ok next quick question, does anyone here think getting laid or getting a girl's number is an accomplishment?
Yer, if it's what I want from her, then it feels great to get a number/sexual interest.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I go through on-and-off phases. When I'm on I see a few girls on the go; when I'm off I see only tumbleweeds across the horizon -- it's p*ssy barron. I'm currently going through an off phase. This d*ck of mine hasn't p*ssy-dived since October '09...
 

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Getting laid is as easy as asking. You don't have to be super suave to get laid on a frequent basis. You just have to be halfway decent and be willing to ask for it.

There are plenty of dopey guys out there having sex.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Getting laid is as easy as asking. You don't have to be super suave to get laid on a frequent basis. You just have to be halfway decent and be willing to ask for it.
LOL yeah right :rolleyes:

If that actually worked, there wouldn't be a need for the PU community.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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teacha said:
Ok next quick question, does anyone here think getting laid or getting a girl's number is an accomplishment?
Nope. They are steps in a process. Women have more to offer than that, it's just that most are good for "sex".

If you believe that a women having sex with you is an accomplishment then i believe you are indirectly telling yourself that you are inferior to women.
 

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teacha said:
Quick question, just wanted to ask you guys who give advice on this board so much actually get laid or have a GF/FB?

I try not to brag, but I honestly have a sex life that makes porn look boring. :D
 

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I came here because I got dumped and wanted to get back into meeting people. Have I got laid since? No. But I feel better about myself, I'm approaching random people I'd never have talked too and I know if I ever really want I can pull girls. I don't think the idea behind this site is to get laid, I think the idea is to change the way you think so that you realize what you can do. If you're just looking to get laid you could have validation problems that youre trying to fill with women.
 

HalfAddict

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No I do not bone a lot of girls, because I don't like ****ing random broads.
Picking up some chick and having sex with her in a short amount of time is dangerous in my eyes... and I'd rather not risk unwanted pregnancy or an STD, pissed off boyfriend, clingy dame ect ect..

I have slept with ten women and only one was my girlfriend at the time...
However two were FB'S the rest were random.. and I just stopped doing that...

I do however receive a lot of *******s and have probably had around 15 different dames do that for me lol...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Getting laid is easy. Pick your target, and home in. Simple as that.
 

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Nope, never been laid. Don't know when I will either. But there's more important things in life.
 

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teacha said:
Quick question, just wanted to ask you guys who give advice on this board so much actually get laid or have a GF/FB?
Hmm, Stupid question? I've slept with somewhere between 20 and 30 women (at 18). I'm single because I choose to be.

teacha said:
Do you guys even interact with women on a regular basis or any level???.... and no, im not talking about your mother, sister, cousin, niece etc.
Im surrounded by girls constantly, and not always the ones I want to hook up with. I'm friends with girls over guys (it's really insightful)- and no offence- but most guy's conversations are just plain dull :p
 

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I found a fiancee that I never would have been able to keep had it not been for this forum.

but before I was engaged I easily ran though a 24 pack of crown condoms about every 4-5 weeks. Easily.

If I were to break up I'd have no problem going back to getting laid as often as I wanted.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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