logicallefty
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In your own opinion, what percentage of women that you personally know are crazy?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
fvck yeah that are. lol Sh|t I thought I was one of the more jaded guys on SS and I voted the 81-90%. Gave em a little credit. I counted my non-crazy mother as 50 women.. jk lol Maybe I'm not the most jaded after all. Looking forward to seeing these results.SamTheHobit said:B1tches be crazy!!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
GS750 said:I think about 40% are just too crazy to deal with. By crazy I mean Bipolar, BPD, clinically depressed, narcissistic, hardcore AW, major issues, etc. The rest are just kind of crazy, but manageable.
Okay Doctor. What's your opinion on the matter? Please share.narcissist said:As a psychology specialist I can tell you right now that your pevelance rates are way off. Profusely exaggerated.
WTF?narcissist said:As a homosexual psychology specialist I can tell you right now that your pevelance homosexual rates are way off. Profusely exaggerated. I'm actually gay.
WTFGS750 said:Okay Doctor I'm a homosexual too. What's your opinion on the homosexual matter? Please share.
WTF is wrong with you?logicallefty said:In your own opinion, what percentage of women that you personally know are crazy? I'm a lefty who voted for Obama and I'm actually a gay homosexual.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I mean no disrespect. But im sure you came to that percentage by means of anecdotal evidence (personal experience).GS750 said:Okay Doctor. What's your opinion on the matter? Please share.
Nah, none taken. It was an exaggeration, I have no idea how many of them are legitimately nuts. Your guess is as good as mine.narcissist said:I mean no disrespect. But im sure you came to that percentage by means of anecdotal evidence (personal experience).
If you use statistically valid sample studies you find that prevelance of those mental disorders for women are way less than you speculated.
It's not really my opinion, it's merely subscribing to scientific rigour. I go where the evidence lies.
But yeah no disrespect bro! Not trying to slight you in any way, I just think it's a huge issue when people frivolously ascribe mental disorders to a large group of people. It's spreading misinformation about a topic that is already misunderstood and stigmatized. When people generalize statistics of mental disorders to one gender without really doing research, it affects the societal zeitgeist or overall perception of abnormal psychology.
Ps. Disregard the irony of my username. I have actually been diagnosed in the past with npd by a practicing psychiatrist. I realize I am glamorizing the disorder with my username, but i realize it's no laughing matter. It affects many people in a negative way, myself included. And if I could change my username i would
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bro, I've met enough crazy b!tches for the both of us, and then some..Eph said:100% of women are crazy, it's just a matter of finding the ones you can deal with. Also by crazy, I don't mean seriously, mentally fvcked up. So, if that's the kind of crazy we're talking, I'm lucky enough to not have met (or at least notice) any batsh!t crazy b!tches.
narcissist said:I mean no disrespect. But im sure you came to that percentage by means of anecdotal evidence (personal experience).
If you use statistically valid sample studies you find that prevelance of those mental disorders for women are way less than you speculated.
It's not really my opinion, it's merely subscribing to scientific rigour. I go where the evidence lies.
But yeah no disrespect bro! Not trying to slight you in any way, I just think it's a huge issue when people frivolously ascribe mental disorders to a large group of people. It's spreading misinformation about a topic that is already misunderstood and stigmatized. When people generalize statistics of mental disorders to one gender without really doing research, it affects the societal zeitgeist or overall perception of abnormal psychology.
Ps. Disregard the irony of my username. I have actually been diagnosed in the past with npd by a practicing psychiatrist. I realize I am glamorizing the disorder with my username, but i realize it's no laughing matter. It affects many people in a negative way, myself included. And if I could change my username i would