"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ok ok MYSPACE people here's the deal

cNfny

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don't go spamming, you'll only catch bait that's sub par.

the best method i have tried/tested/and am now reporting is this.

besides the obvious of having good pics up. AND I DONT MEAN PICS THAT MAKE YOU LOOK "HOT", i'm talking about pictures that add mysterious excitement to your life, makes girls question things around you; that they'd wonder about "what's that behind him?" "he's been there?" "haha cute poster/book/mug/etc"

now here's the key:
in your WHO I'D LIKE TO MEET section.
write down exactly what you're looking for in a girl. dont be afraid to get real specific ie "only interested in blondes" the more detailed the better.

now you go do a search like you normally would within your area and you spam but! instead of a whatever cheesy spam line you'd normal use say

"hey, this might sound random (and it is ha) but i was wondering if you think that you'd fall under my who i'd like to meet section"

now guess what happens? it creates intrigue, they click over to your page, glancing at your pics briefly and read that section.

now no matter if you messaged a brunette and wrote down "only blondes" what happens is that right there generates a response of usually "i'm not a blonde blah blah" and opens the interaction.

and the ones that do fit the description will qualify themselves to you right there! i've had responses go WAY in depth, breaking down what i wrote trying to win my approval.

as always you will have girls that wont respond, but that just makes it easier to resend a message later if so desired with something like "not good enough for me huh?"

happy myspacing!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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StevenR

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besides the obvious of having good pics up. AND I DONT MEAN PICS THAT MAKE YOU LOOK "HOT", i'm talking about pictures that add mysterious excitement to your life, makes girls question things around you; that they'd wonder about "what's that behind him?" "he's been there?" "haha cute poster/book/mug/etc"
I have a Myspace page, I only have a few photos of me , but I mostly have been using it to promote/display my nature, landscape, and travel photos and post a link to an online gallery to try to sell them.
I have also had some other photographers and models (real life acquaintances) leave comments on my photos. I don't know if beautiful women leaving comments about what a great photographer I am has anything to do with it, but lately some random local women(not pornbots, actual women), are sending me friend requests and even flirtatious emails. I wonder if I should give Myspace a try. But then again I am a 30 something guy and I have a feeling that much of the Myspace advice here only works for the teeniebopper crowd.
 

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You know what, this actually sounds like a really good idea. I can see how it would get the ball rolling with new prospects.
 

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thank you!!!

Yessss, yesss, this sounds damn good. will post back w results.

keep it coming... what elsefor myspace, besides DJ boot camp(!)?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lust

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Hmm.

Not bad, one of the better MySpace tips I've seen.
 

cNfny

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Sure you could use physique and pics to show it off. But this tip is more universal for not ALL girls are into guys with an impressive build.
 

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That's a quality tip for these fellows, cNfny. These creatures are easily fooled and suckered, and I think you have a strategy there that will reel a few of em in. Kudos to you. +1
 
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