"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok not sure what to do you guys say take girl on date some of you say not pay.

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What am i supposed to do? I usually pay for dates how am i know what i do? Some say pay for date but pay u back? Please explain
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's $20 out of ur pocket bro....if it means that much to u, then dont pay.

Dating, girls, sex, etc. Its all about ur preferences and skill level. Do what u can do.

Example...i tell dates, hey im low on cash this week so we can split the bill. Period.
 

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Dude....thats a super duper date. Too much.
Ur presence is all she needs if she likes u. Fvck that.
 

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Seriously, you made a thread about this? It's been asked a billion times already, I'm sure you can look it up with ease. You're truly lost if you ask "what am I supposed to do?". I really want your answer for once, how do we know the answers to your questions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First date should be a cost free activity like a walk at the park.

If it goes well, she has high IL and wants to meet again you reward that good behaviour with a paid date, if not you didn't waste your money.
 
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