"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok not sure what to do you guys say take girl on date some of you say not pay.

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What am i supposed to do? I usually pay for dates how am i know what i do? Some say pay for date but pay u back? Please explain
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's $20 out of ur pocket bro....if it means that much to u, then dont pay.

Dating, girls, sex, etc. Its all about ur preferences and skill level. Do what u can do.

Example...i tell dates, hey im low on cash this week so we can split the bill. Period.
 

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Dude....thats a super duper date. Too much.
Ur presence is all she needs if she likes u. Fvck that.
 

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Seriously, you made a thread about this? It's been asked a billion times already, I'm sure you can look it up with ease. You're truly lost if you ask "what am I supposed to do?". I really want your answer for once, how do we know the answers to your questions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First date should be a cost free activity like a walk at the park.

If it goes well, she has high IL and wants to meet again you reward that good behaviour with a paid date, if not you didn't waste your money.
 
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