"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ok my bad on posting 3 of the same(the origional)

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instead of tricks and tips..

shouldnt everyone focus on there inner game?


phone games

power struggles

and BLAH!

have nothing to do with inner game.


the girl im currently with ive seen 15 times in 33 days.


thats nearly every other day.

I talk to her on the phone 30 min to 1 hour regularly the days I dont see her.

she is a stong cofident women.

why is it that I can do this?

because I have inner game....its called confidence.

this Garbage that a lot of you try to do..is bullshyt.


id take the next 3 to 6 months if I was anyone here looking to better themselves..and focus on inner game..and there lives.

with confidence and charm u can get anything u want.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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that has nothing to do with inner game. That has to do w/ clingy women who need a guy in there life and need to see him everyday.


She must have no life to be able to hang out w/ u every other day. You must not have a life either. I can barely manage to fit the girl I'm dating in, 2x per week.
 
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well im glad that u are so busy with ur life that u cant do that.


most of the guys here arent that busy..I work 40 hours a week.

and thats it.

maybe I should start basket weaving to take up more of my time.


when I get married Ill kick her out of the house too..so I can claim im so busy
 
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I keep forgetting wat it's like being an afc.

I never really was one..I didnt realize it was that bad..

but I do wish all teh guys here luck.

I hope u stop being haters and take some good advice from peopel who have good real life expierence
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
the girl im currently with ive seen 15 times in 33 days.

thats nearly every other day.

I talk to her on the phone 30 min to 1 hour regularly the days I dont see her.

she is a stong cofident women.

why is it that I can do this?

because I have inner game....its called confidence.

this Garbage that a lot of you try to do..is bullshyt.
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All of those games are to give the impression that you have confidence.

You can forget about them if you actually have it (and maintain it).

DO stay a mystery, though. Not all girls need this to stay into you, but never hurts. If you're together a lot, keep the life-story convos in check.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"the girl im currently with ive seen 15 times in 33 days."

Who counts after the third time together?
 
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"the girl im currently with ive seen 15 times in 33 days."

Who counts after the third time together?



thanks for proving my point
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
instead of tricks and tips..

shouldnt everyone focus on there inner game?

phone games

power struggles

and BLAH!

have nothing to do with inner game.
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Unfortunately, even if if you have the right inner game, that will not replace experience. Nor does having the right inner game necessarily mean you are using the most effective seduction method available.

Inner game is an important component of the basics ... and basics are core to any effective seducer. However, if you ever master the basics, you may want to move on towards more advanced methods.

As an example, some of the most experienced seducers out there are very effective at manipulating a woman's emotional state. If you can truly master this technique, it will open new doors to seducing women, including the number & quality of women you can seduce.

Maximus_Decimus
 
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