First of all, just ignore all negative non-constructive posts. Don't reply to them, don't read them, just ignore. You don't need that sh*t.
j0n024 said:
I like your shirt (Under shirt) but can you answer me a question....why does everyone on myspace wanna be on "Private" now..I mean it seems counter intuitive of the whole MYSPACE area. But other then that you look good brother I mean I think your cuter then me (My pic is in my journal) so good luck on whatever you do brother...maybe you can get highlights?
....are you f*cking kidding me?? Don't get f*cking highlights. God i hate that 'metro-sexual' look Backham created. It's the opposite of what you should do. It's not about looks, at all. As others already said, you look great. All you need to do is fixing what's in your head.
Now, my analysis:
You look great. That makes it easier, but remember the most important and most common mistake all guys make:
IT'S NOT ABOUT LOOKS. NOT AT ALL.<- that f*cking sentence X100000000.
**** man, i could be a f*cking model. I'm generally good looking and i have a great body. Yet i've only kissed 2 girls in my life and kinda cuddled with 1. I know guys who have rat-faces, have a beer belly and are years younger then me who f*cked a dozen of girls. And i don't mean ugly or fat ones. It's all about attitude, man.
What
you need is CONFIDENCE and charisma. Learn what they call here 'inner game', which means control of yourself. Feeling relaxed and in control around hot girls.
THIS is a really good place to start. Read that and do some reading here, but after a week or so, you need to get outta here and stop reading to start
doing. Most guys here aren't successful because they keep reading and don't do anything with the knowledge.
See it this way: You really learnt to drive AFTER you got your drivers liscense, right?
Check my journal (link in signature) for some examples. I have a long way to go, but i'm getting better.
You'll learn more from one approach then 3 hours of reading.
You can do it. Don't doubt yourself, man!