I used to browse these forums back in my highschool days. AFC's and noobs, listen and take the advice given here. The stuff actually works. I was an AFC during most my highschool career but made a turn around...
Here's my deal and I'm asking for a little advice. My girl and I have been dating for the past 2 years roughly. Things started to get... Boring and routine for both of us. 3 out of the 5 times we went out, we just hung out. The other 2 were great... We're both in college by the way... Anyhow, a few days ago I brought up the subject of us just not having too much fun anymore and we both agreed we should take a break. Eh, it sucks but whatever. From what she said she still wants to get back together with me (ok, cool) and wants to maintain the dating status. We broke up during the evening and hung out for the rest of the night. Which, I actually had a lot of fun because I got to "go after" her again. She kissed me, changed in front of me, yada yada yada.
I think this is good because it actually is forcing me to go back on the "chase" again with her and other girls. Hey, I'm technically single so why not? She went out of the country with her family the day after we broke it off. She, obviously was sad at the time. During the time she's been on vacation she has called me long distance/text messaged me quite a few times. I've only answered 2 of her phone calls and haven't replied back to the text messages. She's the one who technically wanted the break.
So... How should I go about this? I obviously still like her and will probably still want a relationship with her. I don't want to come off AFCish in the least bit. Aka, write her letters, flowers, take her to expensive dinners, ect. ect. Begging her to come back. I know that stuff never works.
I guess just play it cool for a little while? Also... Today would be our xx aniversary. 20 something months. I didn't pick up her phone calls yesterday/last night. Should I call her today and wish her happy aniversary? She did mention that we would still celebrate it, wont start over when "we get back together" ect. ect.
Also, last note. I am my girl's first in everything (except kissing). She's a good girl who has high morals, head screwed on straight ect. ect. I am not worried about her screwing every guy she meets while we're on a break.
So my fellow DJ's whatcha think?
Here's my deal and I'm asking for a little advice. My girl and I have been dating for the past 2 years roughly. Things started to get... Boring and routine for both of us. 3 out of the 5 times we went out, we just hung out. The other 2 were great... We're both in college by the way... Anyhow, a few days ago I brought up the subject of us just not having too much fun anymore and we both agreed we should take a break. Eh, it sucks but whatever. From what she said she still wants to get back together with me (ok, cool) and wants to maintain the dating status. We broke up during the evening and hung out for the rest of the night. Which, I actually had a lot of fun because I got to "go after" her again. She kissed me, changed in front of me, yada yada yada.
I think this is good because it actually is forcing me to go back on the "chase" again with her and other girls. Hey, I'm technically single so why not? She went out of the country with her family the day after we broke it off. She, obviously was sad at the time. During the time she's been on vacation she has called me long distance/text messaged me quite a few times. I've only answered 2 of her phone calls and haven't replied back to the text messages. She's the one who technically wanted the break.
So... How should I go about this? I obviously still like her and will probably still want a relationship with her. I don't want to come off AFCish in the least bit. Aka, write her letters, flowers, take her to expensive dinners, ect. ect. Begging her to come back. I know that stuff never works.
I guess just play it cool for a little while? Also... Today would be our xx aniversary. 20 something months. I didn't pick up her phone calls yesterday/last night. Should I call her today and wish her happy aniversary? She did mention that we would still celebrate it, wont start over when "we get back together" ect. ect.
Also, last note. I am my girl's first in everything (except kissing). She's a good girl who has high morals, head screwed on straight ect. ect. I am not worried about her screwing every guy she meets while we're on a break.
So my fellow DJ's whatcha think?