Ok, im 19, virgin, never kissed a girl, havnt had a job, at uni but staying @ home &

[Joeasd]

i would rather stay home then go out clubbing or something, i would rather spend 10 minues signing up for the gym then walk in to the gym and have to talk to the shop keeper and get a membership when i drive by. I dont like going to get haircuts cause i have to talk to hair dresser

Ok positives i am good looking, and i can talk to people quite well its just i dont really enjoy it and im not outgoing, im thinking this is because i got bullyed early in highschool and only really talked to close friends, also i spent alot of my spare time on the internet and playing videogames like cs.

Late year i been talking to more girls and made new friends but im still virgin and most of these people are aquantences etc i also dont go out must in weekends.

(eqit gotta add i look at way to much porn on net and until recently used to masturbait once a day usually for 1-2 hours

Is it time for me to man up, quit the videogames, get a job in retail(get to practice social skills n ****) and just start forcing myself to go out to the clubs with the boys cause im sure i will enjoy it once i do it.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

You need religion man, talk to your mom or something. Learn to love, theres a void in your life that you keep trying to fill with different things. You think loosing you're virginity will solve your problems, or clubbing will make everything better for you. Clubbing makes you go broke thats what it does, you spend money so easily and wind up short on payments. Get hobbies, Get Goals, Get a purpose, have a drive in life, work towards improving yourself. Running, weight lifting, acne cream, haircuts,etc. Be Charasmatic around people, make them want to be around you because you invoke good feelings within them. Get off this website, get off the internet and just live life.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

You are beyond....

I am making a big assumption... stop playing video games, watching tv, wanking to porn... for one month absolutley none send out a mass message and say "call me if you want to hook up, I'm not doin the same thing for more than 30 minutes, UNLESS hehehe. Alright, call me "

Kinda lifestyle bootcamps are provided, your going to be shy even when you do the bootcamps.... this'll also show you theres more out there than lazing around...

I know you been lazing around or you wouldn't be a virgin

 

[Joeasd]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
You are beyond....

I am making a big assumption... stop playing video games, watching tv, wanking to porn... for one month absolutley none send out a mass message and say "call me if you want to hook up, I'm not doin the same thing for more than 30 minutes, UNLESS hehehe. Alright, call me "

Kinda lifestyle bootcamps are provided, your going to be shy even when you do the bootcamps.... this'll also show you theres more out there than lazing around...

I know you been lazing around or you wouldn't be a virgin

I dont get what you mean, what would no tv n net for a month do, and what kinda message do u mean to send out?

 

[Wiesman44]

Guys like these post because they want everyone to feel sorry for them.

If you truly cared about fixing your personality problems, how about you go out in the world, TRY to do something about it, come back,and tell us about it. From there, we can help you.


But while you complain that your a virgin, u cant talk to people, all the guys on this forum are going to say is "Get out of the house"

Well obviously, you know that you need to go out and confront this problem. But what can u possibly do by posting it to us ? There's no magical solution, man. You know what needs to be done. Perhaps find a friend that will help you.

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

A retail job is a great way to learn people skills and get used to approaching strangers.

It's funny because I think the reason my approach anxiety is low is because at work for a few years I was trained to approach all people in my area within 10 feet / 30 seconds of them entering. So when I approach people I try to put myself in the same state of mind I was at the store.