Ok...If You Guys Are So Good...Fix This!!!

[Lesson4u]

Probot,

I read your post. Shoot me an email:

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Let me see if I can help you a bit.............Lesson

 

[Nighthawk]

Friend of mine hadn't had a relationship, sex or even a kiss for nine years. He read some of this site, used some DJ principles instead of his usual AFC approach, and got a girlfriend the next week.

Enjoy your life and stop worrying what people think of you. Do things that will guarantee rejection or disapproval (go troll a chick-site) and laugh at the consequences. Eliminate self-destructive attitudes by focusing on why you rule. Set goals and achieve them.

I sense that starting this thread was a way for you to mark a definitive start to your quest to better yourself. So you've already made the first step, keep going in that direction and the pvssy will follow.

 

[Tyron]

Hey! This forum is a place for you. Here you can find all the information you need conserning women. Good luck in your way of becoming the man you deserve to be.

Just remember "Nothing worthwhile comes without great effort" (-Julius Caesar) You won't become a dj in one week or a month, and most likely it will take even longer, a year or two. Just don't give up and take everything as a learning expierence. Once you are there, you will be glad that you started this journey.
Good luck !

"I can show you the door, you must walk through it" (any movie fans? -matrix )

 

[Probot]

Originally posted by Nighthawk
Friend of mine hadn't had a relationship, sex or even a kiss for nine years. He read some of this site, used some DJ principles instead of his usual AFC approach, and got a girlfriend the next week.

Thanks for the advice,Bro. Alot of you guys make it sound sooo easy. Just apply the DJ principles and women will start beating down your door.

Maybe getting the girlfriend was just a coincidence maybe it would have happened without the DJ guidelines;then again maybe it was all due to the DJ approach...who knows ?

 

[Nighthawk]

He already knew the girl, but she had a bf. Then he used some kino for the first time (a little hug) and she later said that changed how she felt about him, and after using push/pull and c&f she eventually left her bf for him.

He said applying the tenets of this site - being the prize, not supplicating women, kino - has literally changed his life. He wish he figured this stuff out years ago (I used to tell him, but he was a brainwashed nice guy and didn't want to listen).

Of course some people have been applying these methods for much longer and with less success, but the important thing is that you are willing to lose your defeatist attitude and transform your life.

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

Probot, as Jokerr31 mentioned earlier, there ARE girls out there that would beat your door down. Working with disabled kids speaks VOLUMES about you as a person, all in one sentence. There are lots of girls out there that would go for you. What you need to do is internalize the fact that you are the prize, not her.
I'd be willing to bet that when you're in casual conversation with a woman (any woman), and it comes out that you work with disabled children, their faces light up. No doubt they're thinking "what a great guy". It's an advantage, don't be afraid to use it, and I'm sure you'd never overuse it.
The best piece of advice I've seen given is to read the DJ Bible. Then, read it again. Apply what you read. Then, apply it again. What I'm getting at here is that you've had a long time to get set in your way of thinking about women. Time for a change. It works.
I'm older as well, have two kids. Wife has been sleeping on the couch for eight years (you can guess the rest) - I gave her dissolution paperwork Friday. Not too far removed from the person Nighthawk spoke of. What I'm getting at is that I was out of touch, and this site opened my eyes bigtime. I now have two girls essentially waiting for my dissolution to become final. I never thought someone in my position could attract.