ok I got like 3 grls that I want to setup dates with next week?

[thelonewolflegend]

How do you guys do it lately I have had a few women flake on me and I just next them but how do I prevent flaking? I was gonna ask these 3 on sunday and see what nights they are free what do you ask them and how do you prevent them like day of ignoring you or them telling you wait I cant go?

I know you don't text a lot n stuff but if interest or none how do you get them to want to go or think about you etc..?

 

[jurry]

Cant prevent flaking much altho you can generally get an idea of interest level based on your previous interactions.. I would not ask what nights they are free simply say i wana go do xyz on wedsnesday you should come, etc. if they cant maybe theyll suggest another day, if they dont suggest another day probably not interested, wait a bit try again or just next. Keep conversation to a minimum between then and the date.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

The easiest way is to tell them you'll pick them up and to be ready at x-time. Then, at the very least, if they flake they have to call you up. It's harder when you have to meet them in public, but when you're going on a first date - especially if you're doing online dating - you typically end up doing just that.

Ultimately, you have to ask out girls that are highly interested. I know, I know, "but how can I tell if they're really interested or are just playing along but plan to flake?" This is why it's good to either ask her out via a phone call or in person - it's easier to LISTEN to her voice and/or SEE her reaction to you asking her. If she jumps at the idea or sounds really excited, she's most likely not going to flake; if she hesitates or says "oh, when am I free? Uh, hmmm..." chances are she's going to flake. You can also tell by if she says something like "oh, Thursday would be great, can you call that day to confirm?" or "Sure, that sounds good, I'll call you if my plans change last minute." If you hear these, you're better off planning another date, 'cause she's already figuring out how to cancel on you.