"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok i feel like a total loser and i dont deserve it

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Allright here it goes. Back when i was in high school I had a group of friends that were great. We hung out together and always did ****. Now i moved out to college. Its been a month and i thought i wouldnt have any trouble meeting friends to get social proof.

I never realized how much my social proof in high school helped my game. Now i feel it. I was forced to live off campus and when i go to school my classes feel like their arent enough time to develop friends...

I have asked out a couple of girls and gone out on dates but I really dont have a lot of **** going on im my life and they lost interest. I go to school and come home and occasionally go out on a date. I was thikning about going out to a club the other night (18+, i hate being underaged). To try and meet people. However, i don't :

a) know of any places (im in San Francisco if anybody knows a cool 18+ place =D)
b) I have the problem of needing social proof to make more.

I feel really pathetic about all this. I mean all my life i have had friends around me and my circle just grew from friends of a friend. However, know i can't seem to ****ing make any knew friends its frustrating.

Maybe i should just give it more time but any advice?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you dont need friends around you to hold your hand through everything you do in life.

pimps are the loneliest men in the world.
 
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Aragon034

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Metaphysical said:
you dont need friends around you to hold your hand through everything you do in life.

pimps are the loneliest men in the world.
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Perchance to dream, of becoming more than a pimp?

Path, try finding organized social groups, a college facebook group or a college _______ team, nowadays they send invites to everybody in groups (depending on the time of year i get between 3-5 a week in 4 different parts of the country), approach and meet people, and work from there.

I do feel you on the 18+ thing though, here in Toronto it's 19 to be completely legal.
 
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i am me

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its different feeling, i know. remember the confident feelings that u felt whenever u were around ur friends and try to have this feeling even when youre alone. youll find that u can be much happier in life if u can learn to live independently. youll also appreciate ur friends more whenever u DO get to see em
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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