"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok I dont know

Hector

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what is attraction?

in hte past Ive had a couple of GF's and lots of friends that are girls

I presume since you guys know way more of this than I do i was hoping to get some good information. But yeah I dont really know what attraction is.


Also I know women will accept gifts cause they love that but only once,twice max. I recently got in an argument with a good friend of mine but I bought this card from walgreens that I thought is perfect. Because of course we have stayed in touch but we have not seen each other. So what can I do. Also I'm 20 out of the house in college and dont really know how many things work. I heard of this website and said who knows maybe im at the right place.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mr. Wolf

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Attraction is when people want to be with you because they are attracted to you..

When people are with you because you bought them something, that's prostitution..

Yea, you're at the right place, there information here and the link I gave you earlier today which is a road map that will get you to eternal paradise.. Though, it's up to you to get there.
 

Ripper

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Attraction is when you draw people to yourself.
 

Canadian Catnip

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Attraction isn't a choice.
 

jdawgmcb

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Attraction is not a choice, period. If a girl is attracted to you, they will show different IOIs, two big ones are pupil dilation and constant throwing/touching of the hair.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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