"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok i dont get it my text game needs help why women ignore?

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Hey sunshine who you got for the superbowl? if broncos win you're doing shots! If panthers win.. you're still doing shots! lmao.

Lol...Panthers!

I figured im for the broncos well see what happens. Whos in the halftime show this time around?

Beyonce you know that!

Of course im a big beyonce fan worship her daily. Maybe there will get a malfunction going on haha.
Lol so what nights are you free this week to join me?

No reply help
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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StacksHitEmUp

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Texting should only be used to set dates, nothing else. Why bore her with pointless shyt? I see so many guys shooting themselves in the foot by texting girls and they get ****ing hype when they get a few texts back, then they try to plan a date and shyt goes downhill and theyre left wondering and obsessing what went wrong. She was just being friendly bro. The only girls I ever chat or text with are girls I've friendzoned and I hit em up whenever I'm bored. Because that's what friends do. Do you want to be her friend bruv?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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El Payaso

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The text was okay but no reply means no.

If a guy she was attracted to texted her exactly what you texted her and asked her out, she would reply with a day without hesitation.

It simply means she's not interested.

Delete and move on.
 

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Hey sunshine who you got for the superbowl? if broncos win you're doing shots! If panthers win.. you're still doing shots! lmao.
  1. This is not that bad but you wrote too much at once and it seems forced. Just send the first question and then follow up from there
  2. Don't laugh at your own texts, it's not a good look

I figured im for the broncos well see what happens. Whos in the halftime show this time around?
  1. You were drying her panties up with these boring questions
  2. Stop trying to have an conversation via text
  3. Still writing too much

Of course im a big beyonce fan worship her daily. Maybe there will get a malfunction going on haha.
Lol so what nights are you free this week to join me?
  1. Notice how her responses are a fraction of what you wrote
  2. Saying you worship Beyoncé daily did not help you
  3. The humor about her having a wardrobe malfunction was cheap
  4. You laughed at yourself twice in this message...
  5. Your transition to ask her out was not smooth, you just suddenly went to "Lol so what nights are you free..." Come on.
  6. Don't ask when she's free. State when you're free.
  7. You ambiguously asked her to join you. Join you where? Doing what? Just "join me"
 
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You told her what you wanted and asked her out... you get no response.

She is not interested. Move on don't ask her out again and find a woman that wants to be with you.

Nothing wrong with texting... you just don't need to do this. If you had called her and asked her out she would have given you excuses. For times you propose... or say okay... then flake.

An open ended "When are you free text" Can only be answered with silence, if she is not interested.... She can't say she's busy... She can't make excuses.... take the hint and delete her number.

DO NOT CONTACT HER AGAIN... until she answers you back. If that means walking away forever, so be it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women ignore simply because they are not interested in you the same way you are interested in them.

They have other guys taking their interest who they prioritize.. YOu are undervalued by the woman in question. Time to move on.

Why waste your damn time with a girl who isn't showing you clear signs of interest.. Focus on girls you have a connection with.. Not ones you dont. Should be common sense...

That's why you never talk to just 1 girl.. You should have like 10 numbers in your phone.. at least 4 of them should be clear connections.. and at least 3 of those numbers should be deleted before the month passes.
 

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This is one of those cases where no amount of game would've helped, at no point did she show any sign of wanting the D during this convo, it's GG bro, find a new one
 

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Low interest girl, move on.

If I can offer any advice on your text game. Dont ask what nights she free to join you? Join you in what??????

Tell her what your doing that night and how exciting it is and if shes free come along. then tell her to enjoy the game. go panthers!!!!

Now this might not work, but it comes off more DJ then what you said.
 

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I thought her game was supreme.
She had you initiating, playful, yearning to continue the conversation, and even indirectly asking her out.
All with two responses.
 

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IL is too low. Don't contact again, find new plates.

She will most likely eventually contact when she needs an ego boost... if/when she contacts ignore a couple of attempts then act like nothing happened, be funny/****y but make her work for your attention... smash and drop.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I thought her game was supreme.
She had you initiating, playful, yearning to continue the conversation, and even indirectly asking her out.
All with two responses.
Nah, the OP was just thirsty. She was likely responding out of courtesy. No real game on her end.
 
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