"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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OK, i cut, and now abs are showing... now what?

stormwriter

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I lost some bodyfat, and my abs are showing. I still have some more work to do, but i can't keep up this stupid diet. I lost some muscle mass, and a few days i got manic and didn't eat much at all; I was really weak those days.
So, once i get the bodyfat down, can i start back eating carbs again, or will i lose all the gains i made cutting? I would eat clean carbs, like oats, grains, rice, vegetables, not sugary carbs.

I'm kind of new to this. I'm not ripped, but i have a pretty good start on a t-shaped tone build, with some abs finally showing. I'm tall and thin. My goal isn't to be super strong, but just to keep gaining muscle, and remain low bodyfat so the abs continue to show.

I have no idea what will happen once i start eating my carbs again to feed my muscles.

Any help or insight would be appreciated.

Thanks!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shiftkey

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Gaining a little fat is inevitable if you want to bulk for muscle. That's why body builders train with bulking and cutting cycles.
 

madgame

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if you want to lose weight (fat) you need to eat less calories than it takes to maintain your bodyweight. If you want to bulk (which u will want to) you have to eat more, so yes if ure done with ur cutting diet u will have to eat more carbs again in order to gain muscle mass. I do it like this: 10 to 11 months a year bulking 1 - 2 months cutting ...depends on how much bad foods I ate ;-)
 

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now you say "wow look at my muscles" and then you begin to eat more and bulk to make more muscles and then you cut again to look at them!
 
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