"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OK, i cut, and now abs are showing... now what?

stormwriter

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I lost some bodyfat, and my abs are showing. I still have some more work to do, but i can't keep up this stupid diet. I lost some muscle mass, and a few days i got manic and didn't eat much at all; I was really weak those days.
So, once i get the bodyfat down, can i start back eating carbs again, or will i lose all the gains i made cutting? I would eat clean carbs, like oats, grains, rice, vegetables, not sugary carbs.

I'm kind of new to this. I'm not ripped, but i have a pretty good start on a t-shaped tone build, with some abs finally showing. I'm tall and thin. My goal isn't to be super strong, but just to keep gaining muscle, and remain low bodyfat so the abs continue to show.

I have no idea what will happen once i start eating my carbs again to feed my muscles.

Any help or insight would be appreciated.

Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Shiftkey

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Gaining a little fat is inevitable if you want to bulk for muscle. That's why body builders train with bulking and cutting cycles.
 

madgame

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if you want to lose weight (fat) you need to eat less calories than it takes to maintain your bodyweight. If you want to bulk (which u will want to) you have to eat more, so yes if ure done with ur cutting diet u will have to eat more carbs again in order to gain muscle mass. I do it like this: 10 to 11 months a year bulking 1 - 2 months cutting ...depends on how much bad foods I ate ;-)
 

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now you say "wow look at my muscles" and then you begin to eat more and bulk to make more muscles and then you cut again to look at them!
 
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