Ok i called the girl

[sprinter911]

Ok i gave that girl a call who was interested in me, i called her yesterday and she called me back and left a message today. When i called her the convo went well for alittle bit then i couldnt freakin understand what she was saying because the phone was being staticy so i kept saying "whats that again", "can you repeat that", " Huh" This was the first real convo we had and i feel like a jackass about it. She wants me to go to a club with her on Wed.... however im not really in the mood to go... if i suddenly back out and say something came up do you guys think this will go over well and have her curious, or will she think im an ass ?

 

[NINJA PIMP]

here is a novel idea

FVCK WHAT SHE THINKS!

Do what YOU want to do. If you mess up you will learn from it.

Take control of your life and own yourself for goodness sake!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Ok, so you don't want to go to the club. Did you give her a counter offer for Wednesday? Yeah, you could make up a lie or tell her the truth that you didn't want to go.

Either way, it's AFC actions. If you lie, you're a scared AFC, if you tell her the truth, you look like a AFC since you didn't tell her that you didn't want to go from the jump.

Here's a rhetorical question, guy peruses girl, girl shows high interest, guy changes his mind because of the venue (not the girl), now what is was purpose of the pursuit?

 

[sprinter911]

Francis, i didnt go after her, when i met her i was like damn shes hot but didnt go ask her for her number. Her friend told me she thought i was hot and gave me her number, we never really had a convo until tonight. The reason i dont want to go on Wed is because i didnt see my friends in over 2 weeks and we all planned on going out the night before thanksgiving. My friends would not want to go to the club her and her friends are planning on going to. From the jump i told her Wed might be a bad night and i would have to get back to her. Thats when she was like well i will pick u up and give you a ride to the club.

 

[THA REALNESS]

No one likes being blown off. Do you really have something more important to do???


I'd go. Phukk that !!




I always put my personal stuff before girls but c'mon now if i'm really not doing anything important ,why would i pass on opportunity for nudity?

 

[THA REALNESS]

P.S. That's sorta like a first date though !!and you had a ****ty conversation over the phone ,i'm guessing you wanna get to know her ,right? Well a club is not a place to do that.


I would still go anyaways!

 

[Big Pappy]

Sounds like she knows what she wants. However, she's going to be with her friends, and you're tagging along. I would tell her the truth; your friends don't want to go to that club. You counter with another day and time. She may not go for it. It's all about what you want.

The only flag that I see is that you're entering into her world (her friends, her choice of club) instead of her coming into yours. (Your friends, your choice of venue. )

Just my two cents.