"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok I am not getting any luck need help.

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If you are having a hard time picking up women in bars, then stop beating yourself up and try something different. Meet them someplace else. A typical bar is a sausage-fest anyway, which is why women there are so b!tchy.

There are a ton of things to do in St Louis. Women tend to be sports fans, at least enough to have a crush on Yadier Molina. That gives you something to talk about. Women like the celebrity gossip aspect of sports. When you see a girl in a cardinal's shirt, ask her how drunk she thinks Yadi must have been to get those neck tattoos. You have to be fun and engaging enough to distract the girl from the fact that you're trying to pick her up.

You want to know someplace to meet girls in St Louis - or probably anywhere - that's not a sausage-fest? Try anything to do with animals, like pet shelters and rescues. There are plenty of shelters who will let you volunteer to do things like sit in Petsmart on a Saturday with a puppy they're trying to adopt out. The same women who are b!tches to you in the bar will melt. The difference is just the context in which you met them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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