"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok, how the hell do I convert AIM -> date

PRiSM92289

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ALl the girls here use AIM (aol Instant Messanger) over giving out #s. Its annoying, but yesterday I closed two HB 9.0s and they gave me their names, emails (uhh NO), and s/ns. Email is lame, I use it very sparingly, like Michael Philippe said in Cruel Intentions, email is for geeks and pedofiles. So I IMed one of them today, fluffed but its much harder to arrange a date. She must have gone away and come back like 6 times. Im sure I have the right interest levels from both of them, but on AIM everyone is distracted so nothing ever works out

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ask her to provide you a number so you can call her. It takes time to receive response from girls via email. I will simply ask for her number and if she is interested in you, she will give the number else, she has not interest in meeting you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You guys are making this way more difficult than it really is.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
You guys are making this way more difficult than it really is.
Alright. What do you suggest he should do in this case, Francisco.
 

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^ yah just realised that.

Will do for the next HB 9.0 #2

New topic question: should I try again with the HB 9.0 that I just talked to
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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