"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok, how the hell do I convert AIM -> date

PRiSM92289

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ALl the girls here use AIM (aol Instant Messanger) over giving out #s. Its annoying, but yesterday I closed two HB 9.0s and they gave me their names, emails (uhh NO), and s/ns. Email is lame, I use it very sparingly, like Michael Philippe said in Cruel Intentions, email is for geeks and pedofiles. So I IMed one of them today, fluffed but its much harder to arrange a date. She must have gone away and come back like 6 times. Im sure I have the right interest levels from both of them, but on AIM everyone is distracted so nothing ever works out

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ask her to provide you a number so you can call her. It takes time to receive response from girls via email. I will simply ask for her number and if she is interested in you, she will give the number else, she has not interest in meeting you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You guys are making this way more difficult than it really is.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
You guys are making this way more difficult than it really is.
Alright. What do you suggest he should do in this case, Francisco.
 

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^ yah just realised that.

Will do for the next HB 9.0 #2

New topic question: should I try again with the HB 9.0 that I just talked to
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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