"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok, here's one for you guys

cNfny

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i have lunch from work everyday at 12:30 and i always drive home because it's only 5 min from work. i have to drive by a private school to get to my house and since the start of the school year i have been noticing that at that time is when the kids have recess and this amazing looking young conservative teacher is always out there with them.

today was the first time we made eye contact as i drove by out of the week.
i can't seem to get myself to stop and talk to her, it'd be kind of awkward with all the kids there and not to mention the hurd of cars behind me.

any suggestions on this one?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dipset_mafia

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maybe you should try honking at her
 

jdon23

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hmm.. how bout this..

Make believe like you just lost your dog and your frantically looking for him. Look upset and ask the woman if she has seen your dog anywhere near the school, since he is very friendly. Try to work some C&F in the convo and then ask for her #.
 

Aragon034

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jdon23 said:
hmm.. how bout this..

Make believe like you just lost your dog and your frantically looking for him. Look upset and ask the woman if she has seen your dog anywhere near the school, since he is very friendly. Try to work some C&F in the convo and then ask for her #.
I dunno man, what if she asks if you found the dog later? or she asks a friend of yours if you ever found it and they're response is "What? He's never had a dog!"

to OP, you could always take the easy route, just park the car, walk over to her, and say something along the lines of "I've driven past here a couple times and we've seen each other, far be it from me to be rude and not say hello."

and go from there. But the basic thing is break the ice.
 

The Bat

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Aragon034 said:
I dunno man, what if she asks if you found the dog later? or she asks a friend of yours if you ever found it and they're response is "What? He's never had a dog!"

to OP, you could always take the easy route, just park the car, walk over to her, and say something along the lines of "I've driven past here a couple times and we've seen each other, far be it from me to be rude and not say hello."

and go from there. But the basic thing is break the ice.
Follow this.

Forget doing the dog Will Smith Hitch crap. It's too corny and lame.

Keep it simple for gals like her. Chances are she doesn't get hit on that much when she is at work (unless her colleagues do but it's not your problem) so she'll be more friendly.

Just don't develop a one-itis for her. Talk to her yesterday! Get it over with and bust a nut on her face already.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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