ok! help me play this out...

[grayclif]

Got my heart busted open a few months back did the NC thing, I'm cool now but anyways...

I just started texting this girl on Sunday. I met her Saturday night. I had had a bit too much to drink and didn't wanna mess it up so I left. I managed somehow to get her number before leaving so I must not have been that bad but wasn't gonna chance it.

Here is the text thread

M: Love the tattoo - wish I coulda seen the whole thing.
H: Lol, i forgot about that
M: Unfogetable if you ask me. Sleep nice yo!
H: You do the same

H: Night, i jus wanted 2 tell u that i cant make it tonight, i hav alot 2 do in the kitchen, i wil com out on thursday, if u hav classes? Sorry
M: No problem sweets! I wanted to see you too.
H: I hear that
M: Good night xxx
H: Night

M: Do me a favor.... Have a great day!
H: Thanks u do the same, u hav 2 let me know where 2 drop off your sample pastries..

What you think?

 

[Desdinova]

What you think?

Is this seduction? All i see is a somewhat mundane convo with a girl. You need to be more fun and playful with her. Flirt with her the way you would flirt with an attractive woman. The only thing I see that even hints that she's more than a female acquaintance is this:

M: Do me a favor.... Have a great day!

 

[Igetit!]

Got my heart busted open a few months back did the NC thing, I'm cool now but anyways...

I just started texting this girl on Sunday. I met her Saturday night. I had had a bit too much to drink and didn't wanna mess it up so I left. I managed somehow to get her number before leaving so I must not have been that bad but wasn't gonna chance it.

Here is the text thread

M: Love the tattoo - wish I coulda seen the whole thing.
H: Lol, i forgot about that
M: Unfogetable if you ask me. Sleep nice yo!
H: You do the same

H: Night, i jus wanted 2 tell u that i cant make it tonight, i hav alot 2 do in the kitchen, i wil com out on thursday, if u hav classes? Sorry
M: No problem sweets! I wanted to see you too.
H: I hear that
M: Good night xxx
H: Night

M: Do me a favor.... Have a great day!
H: Thanks u do the same, u hav 2 let me know where 2 drop off your sample pastries..

This whole conversation is WHACK.

What is this? There's nothing here.


If this is how you talked with girls a few months ago,it's no wonder you got your "heart busted".

What you think?

Honestly,it seems you don't understand attraction from the female's point of view. Women are emotional. You have to make them feel something for them to be attracted to you.



There's nothing here in your conversation. You need some "ummf",some "pa-zazzz",some type of energy.




You seem to be too hung up on being "polite and nice",on trying not to offend her. You don't seem to understand...



Offending a girl or hurting her feelings doesn't hurt your chances with a girl,being AFC does.




You're convo is too tame. If you continue this,she's going to friendzone you,then go find herself a guy who'll tell her to SHUT UP and to wear a mini-skirt and a low-cut shirt the next time her sees her.



Stop being nice,and just be normal.

 

[Ease]

Not only is there energy and sexual tension missing, i wana point out something huge.

Your completely pedestalling her. Your super validating her with every text. Your giving her twice as much as she is giving you back. Majorly cut back on the soft sweet stuff, your running around her and she is giving you back less enthusiastic replies.

You need to show less interest in her. You need to stop being so wussy and AFC.

You say 'good night xxx', she says 'night'. big nono. It should be the opposite, she gives you 3 kisses, you give her back none. Stop being so keen and easy, she needs to chase you and wonder if your interested in her sometimes.

M: Do me a favor.... Have a great day!

Way too much affection. If you need a way of initiating convo, make it something funnier and less effort. This again puts you in the position of chasing her and her value higher than yours. Especially this early, you need cut back.