"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok Get This sh*t guys

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The other night me, my roomate, and his pseudo girlfriends went out to the pub. I say pseudo girlfriend because he's been sleeping over at her house for the past week or so in her bed and they haven't fvcked. And according to her they aren't going to, she said, "I just need someoen to sleep with." I said, "get another pillow."

Anyway, we met over at her house and I took my car, and she drove my roomate down in her car. It should also be noted that she takes him out for lunch, dinner etc. all the time and he never pays a dime. It's like she's just stringing him along like a dog.

So we get to the bar, and somewhere between her house and the bar they had some kind of argument. So the rest of the night my roomate didn't talk to either me or his fake GF. Earlier that night the girl had asked me if I wanted to go to lunch with her on Saturday, and I said ok just to be friendly and hang out. I'm not about to steal my buddies girl. So I guess that's what he got mad about but I still don't know

Me and the girl spent the whole time at the bar talking, and she kept saying what an ******* my roomate is etc. I was trying to get them to make up, but he would have none of it. Everytime she went over to him he either pushed her away or said, "are you lost."

Finally she tells me that she's not letting him come home with her, and that she finally sees what he was really like. Then she took some key off of her key ring and gave it to him, and left without him. Seconds later hewent running out the front door after her, and haven't heard from either of them since.

I finished my drink, made small talk with the bartender and left.

I really don't have a question or anythig to go along with this post. I thought I would just post up some crazy chick antics, and see what you guys had to say.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KEddie

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well this sucks, I figured you guys of all people would have some good sh*t to say about this chick.
 

flexion_

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Don't go out with one of your bro's female "friends" - ever. I guess I'm missing the antics here.
 

rocky_mtn

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is your roommate your friend? because if he is, he won't be for long


Bro's before ho's, always
 

Big Eee Zee

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if he doesnt pay for food, id say he found a sweet deal and shouldn't have been such a dumbass to screw it up.

damn, if i could get some chick to pay for all my meals, id let myself be "strung along" for months, just keep the other girls a secret from her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OBSYDYN

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flexion_ said:
Don't go out with one of your bro's female "friends" - ever. I guess I'm missing the antics here.
What if your bro's GF wants you to go with her to pick out a gift for his birthday or christmas present?

IMO thats the only exception I have.
 

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I have no intention in trying to steal her away. I just thought that it was pretty ballsy of her to be asking me out and talking bad about him while he was sitting right there. And then for him to get mad at me, I thought was pretty F'ed up.
 

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she was probably asking you out to see how he'd react to that. haven't contacted him yet?
 

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he hasn't been home since thursday and hasn't returned any of my calls, so no I haven't talked to him about it yet. I called the girl today to try and pump her for information, and now she was acting like I killed a puppy. I also haven't seen her since Thursday, so I have no idea what's going on. I've just been going about my normal routines.
 
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