"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok DJs, give me a GREEN or RED on this:

I Am Lost 18

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I've got this girl in my arms right now. But I'm temp . ignoring her for a few days, and she has been texting me a lot over it, and come tonight, as every week, she's gonna ask me to meet again this Saturday(every other week it's the same thing, we meet EVERY OTHER Saturday, I think I kinda fvuked up there,

not too bad though, however, because because of that, she prefers me over all the boys she knows, I know this because she never meets other boys outside of college, and is always making excuses to them when they ask to meet her outside of college-this done on social sites, etc).

Because she has college 8AM to 7PM, dance from 8PM to 11PM on weekdays. Dance and family time on Saturdays, and dance and church on Sundays. So she definitely is busy, but every other Saturday is devoted to meeting and spending the day with me, etc.


So when she asks me tonight, I plan on turning her down, and say something like "Eh, next week, busy this weekend".

And come next week, "Ok, we're going out today. I don't care what plans you have. Cancel them out, I'm gonna come pick you up at XX time".

Go for it or no?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74

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What is the problem? Why do you guys over complicate things? You got this girl in the palm of your hand, and you got her on a schedule? What's wrong with that? Why are you making power plays when you have everything you could possibly want? You know what days to expect her, so you can put other girls in the rotation on other days. You guys could fcck up winning the lotto with this over thinking bullshtt.

What is you goal here? What are you trying to make her do and why?
 

Gangster Of Love

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I Am Lost 18 said:
I've got this girl in my arms right now. But I'm temp . ignoring her for a few days, and she has been texting me a lot over it, and come tonight, as every week, she's gonna ask me to meet again this Saturday(every other week it's the same thing, we meet EVERY OTHER Saturday, I think I kinda fvuked up there,

not too bad though, however, because because of that, she prefers me over all the boys she knows, I know this because she never meets other boys outside of college, and is always making excuses to them when they ask to meet her outside of college-this done on social sites, etc).

Because she has college 8AM to 7PM, dance from 8PM to 11PM on weekdays. Dance and family time on Saturdays, and dance and church on Sundays. So she definitely is busy, but every other Saturday is devoted to meeting and spending the day with me, etc.


So when she asks me tonight, I plan on turning her down, and say something like "Eh, next week, busy this weekend".

And come next week, "Ok, we're going out today. I don't care what plans you have. Cancel them out, I'm gonna come pick you up at XX time".

Go for it or no?
Why are you playing games?

Why don't you go meet other girlies, and play those games and experiment with them. Don't sabotage the one that is already on the rotation.
 
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