"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok DJs, give me a GREEN or RED on this:

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I Am Lost 18

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I've got this girl in my arms right now. But I'm temp . ignoring her for a few days, and she has been texting me a lot over it, and come tonight, as every week, she's gonna ask me to meet again this Saturday(every other week it's the same thing, we meet EVERY OTHER Saturday, I think I kinda fvuked up there,

not too bad though, however, because because of that, she prefers me over all the boys she knows, I know this because she never meets other boys outside of college, and is always making excuses to them when they ask to meet her outside of college-this done on social sites, etc).

Because she has college 8AM to 7PM, dance from 8PM to 11PM on weekdays. Dance and family time on Saturdays, and dance and church on Sundays. So she definitely is busy, but every other Saturday is devoted to meeting and spending the day with me, etc.


So when she asks me tonight, I plan on turning her down, and say something like "Eh, next week, busy this weekend".

And come next week, "Ok, we're going out today. I don't care what plans you have. Cancel them out, I'm gonna come pick you up at XX time".

Go for it or no?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What is the problem? Why do you guys over complicate things? You got this girl in the palm of your hand, and you got her on a schedule? What's wrong with that? Why are you making power plays when you have everything you could possibly want? You know what days to expect her, so you can put other girls in the rotation on other days. You guys could fcck up winning the lotto with this over thinking bullshtt.

What is you goal here? What are you trying to make her do and why?
 
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I Am Lost 18 said:
I've got this girl in my arms right now. But I'm temp . ignoring her for a few days, and she has been texting me a lot over it, and come tonight, as every week, she's gonna ask me to meet again this Saturday(every other week it's the same thing, we meet EVERY OTHER Saturday, I think I kinda fvuked up there,

not too bad though, however, because because of that, she prefers me over all the boys she knows, I know this because she never meets other boys outside of college, and is always making excuses to them when they ask to meet her outside of college-this done on social sites, etc).

Because she has college 8AM to 7PM, dance from 8PM to 11PM on weekdays. Dance and family time on Saturdays, and dance and church on Sundays. So she definitely is busy, but every other Saturday is devoted to meeting and spending the day with me, etc.


So when she asks me tonight, I plan on turning her down, and say something like "Eh, next week, busy this weekend".

And come next week, "Ok, we're going out today. I don't care what plans you have. Cancel them out, I'm gonna come pick you up at XX time".

Go for it or no?
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Why are you playing games?

Why don't you go meet other girlies, and play those games and experiment with them. Don't sabotage the one that is already on the rotation.
 
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