"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OK Cupid flirting help plz

d!ckmojo

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Hi guys~ I logged into OKcupid yesterday for the first time in ages yesterday, and I followed Naughty Ninja's process of looking at who had viewed you and messaging them to ask if they were shy, so I sent this message:

Hey Michelle~ I saw you saw me... why didn't you leave a message?? aw u must b shy...
Anyway, I'm a sailor. Sometimes I get drunk. When that happens, I am a Drunken Sailor. Fun ensues.
How about you?
She replied just now with
hahah, i saw you and thought you were attractive, then realised you're probably quite into yourself. amiright? nothing wrong with that i guess. gotta love an egotistical drunken sailor ;)
So, if anyone can help, please suggest what I do message back to her next to keep the flirting banter up.

Thanks in advance~

d1ckmojo
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jitterbug

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Role play. You're now a drunken egotistical sailor (give yourself a name while you're at it). She needs a character, Sailor's Wench is the most obvious. You create it and give it to her, then help her ease into character...
 
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