"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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squelchy451

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Hi.

I don't have an acne problem but my forehead gets pretty shiny and oily during the day. When I keep my hair away from my forehead, there is less oil. I think that my hair is oily and the oil is transferred to my forehead.

What should i do to make my hair less oily?


Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Analyzeit

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Just rinse it thoroughly with just water

Use product on it a lot less including shampoo and conditioner (don't stop altogether just slow it down)

Some people say a bad diet makes it oily to, but i'm not going to ask you to change that
 

02hero

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OP,
Use a shampoo without SLS (Sodium Laureth Sulphate) in its ingredients.

This stuff is used for industrial cleaning and is highly toxic. Unfortunately it is found in most shampoos on the market today as it creates a lather. This stuff is also found in shower gels, soaps and toothpaste e.t.c.

Get yourself an organic shampoo without SLS in it and I'm sure you'll see an improvement. The trouble is that SLS strips the hair of its natural oils and then the conditioner is used to replace these oils. The body will then pump out more natural oils to replace the ones that have been stripped away mixing with the conditioner creating greasy/oily hair. Most people repeat this cycle of washing their hair every couple of days because of this.

If you use a shampoo without SLS you probably wont need to bother washing your hair as much. Probably just once a week or so, unless you use a lot of product in your hair.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Get a fairly shortish haircut if you dont have one already.
Wash your face and your hair everyday.
Try to wear lighter clothes when possible, don't get overheated (helps block sweat.)
During school, one thing that helps is going to the bathroom and washing your face every couple classes. I do this a lot and it feels good, it's very refreshing.

Make sure to use soap and water because soap helps counteract the oil.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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