"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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squelchy451

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Hi.

I don't have an acne problem but my forehead gets pretty shiny and oily during the day. When I keep my hair away from my forehead, there is less oil. I think that my hair is oily and the oil is transferred to my forehead.

What should i do to make my hair less oily?


Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Analyzeit

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Just rinse it thoroughly with just water

Use product on it a lot less including shampoo and conditioner (don't stop altogether just slow it down)

Some people say a bad diet makes it oily to, but i'm not going to ask you to change that
 

02hero

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OP,
Use a shampoo without SLS (Sodium Laureth Sulphate) in its ingredients.

This stuff is used for industrial cleaning and is highly toxic. Unfortunately it is found in most shampoos on the market today as it creates a lather. This stuff is also found in shower gels, soaps and toothpaste e.t.c.

Get yourself an organic shampoo without SLS in it and I'm sure you'll see an improvement. The trouble is that SLS strips the hair of its natural oils and then the conditioner is used to replace these oils. The body will then pump out more natural oils to replace the ones that have been stripped away mixing with the conditioner creating greasy/oily hair. Most people repeat this cycle of washing their hair every couple of days because of this.

If you use a shampoo without SLS you probably wont need to bother washing your hair as much. Probably just once a week or so, unless you use a lot of product in your hair.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Get a fairly shortish haircut if you dont have one already.
Wash your face and your hair everyday.
Try to wear lighter clothes when possible, don't get overheated (helps block sweat.)
During school, one thing that helps is going to the bathroom and washing your face every couple classes. I do this a lot and it feels good, it's very refreshing.

Make sure to use soap and water because soap helps counteract the oil.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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