Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Air powered car.Wiesman44 said:
YEah. "Zero emissions"? That's disingenuous; it still causes pollution.Alle_Gory said:Air powered car.
I hate these damn things. You need electricity, 50% of which is produced by coal powered generators, 19% from natural gas, and 3% by fuel oil.
http://www.eei.org/industry_issues/industry_overview_and_statistics/industry_statistics/index.htm
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No ****.PSYCHO said:The oil is controlled and artificial scarcity is manufactured and the price is manipulated by the oil company monopoly men.
Really? You are aware that cars (the main users of oil) make up less than 10% of global Co2 emissions.Aboleo said:Bullsh!t. Anyways, it is beside the point... burning oil is killing our planet. It really doesn't matter where it comes from. We have got to stop using it or we are going to kill ourselves.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bingo. You are one of the ones who gets it. It's simple economics really. They know demand won't decrease so big oil manipulate the supply and prices are increased. Basically they can charge almost any price they want regardless of real supply anyway and consumer will have little choice but pay it. I would wager that illegal price manipulation is going on (there are rules against price fixing etc.) but the government gave them the go ahead and won't ever prosecute.Alle_Gory said:No ****.
Heard of the laws of supply and demand?
When supply goes down and demand stays the same, prices go up. The supply is artificially controlled by the oil cartel (not monopoly).
Here is a little explanation with a chart:
http://www.mikeonads.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/05/supply_demand_11.JPG
When the supply goes down, the supply curve moves to the left. Notice how the equilibrium (lines crossing) point moves vertically? Results in price increase.
Artificially manipulating the supply curve means $$$$$.
Rhoto said:Really? You are aware that cars (the main users of oil) make up less than 10% of global Co2 emissions.
Want to stop killing the planet? Stop coal.
Big oil cannot just charge what they want or they will endanger their market. Oil at too high a price will cause consumers to shift away from oil in the long run. Look at what's happening now, as oil hits Cdn$1.30+ per litre, people are shifting to alternatives. If it gets way higher, the shift will become faster and eventually, an equilibrium will be achieved. The question is how much and when.ketostix said:Bingo. You are one of the ones who gets it. It's simple economics really. They know demand won't decrease so big oil manipulate the supply and prices are increased. Basically they can charge almost any price they want regardless of real supply anyway and consumer will have little choice but pay it. I would wager that illegal price manipulation is going on (there are rules against price fixing etc.) but the government gave them the go ahead and won't ever prosecute.
And besides oil, markets aren't free and fair all the time anyway. Look how the housing market was over-inflated and countless other examples of stocks. The difference there is the market may correct that. But with a commodity like oil and the cartels manipulating supply and prices, I don't think the market can really correct oil.