"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ohh wow this weekend is goin to kick a$$....hopefully

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toddC

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Okay, homecoming weekend WOOHOO! now one of my BEST BEST BEST family friends is running for homecoming queen and is hopeuflly goign to win. Now this girl has VERY hot friends and she is throwing a HUGE party at her house. I'm even sleeping there :) Heres where the problem lays. The girl in her "Crew" that I've been going for I'm not sure if she wants me.

The reasons why I think she does are that she is so enthusiastic when she says hi and on weekends when i see her shes always like wow i'm so drunk anyone can take advantage of me right now. other than that she flirts ALOT wiht me writing in school in her notebook i love you (being me) etc etc etc...

Now the ONE reason why I don't know if should go for this one is like this:

Last week I was at a halloween party with her. Everyone was crunked and having a good time. I'm kinoing this girl ya no doin ma DJ thing and I walked away for liek 20 mins and came back and shes like HI TODD and kissed me on the lips (not sure if it was by accident or not) but then when my friend was like whoa did you h/u with him shes like nope nevvvvvverr (kinda in a joking way)

So my question is this...should i NEXT her or still try to pursue her at this homecoming party.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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immrtlwun

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Don't pursue her. If she's that interested in you, she'll probably look for you at the party. If she doesn't come up to you, just start casual conversation and if it feels right, escalate it and see what you can get.
 
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I wouldnt recommend activly pursuing anyone. just make contact with everyone (including her) and try to get some laughs. that way if she doesnt go after you, your night isnt shot. but if she does, good for you.
 
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