"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ohh wow this weekend is goin to kick a$$....hopefully

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toddC

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Okay, homecoming weekend WOOHOO! now one of my BEST BEST BEST family friends is running for homecoming queen and is hopeuflly goign to win. Now this girl has VERY hot friends and she is throwing a HUGE party at her house. I'm even sleeping there :) Heres where the problem lays. The girl in her "Crew" that I've been going for I'm not sure if she wants me.

The reasons why I think she does are that she is so enthusiastic when she says hi and on weekends when i see her shes always like wow i'm so drunk anyone can take advantage of me right now. other than that she flirts ALOT wiht me writing in school in her notebook i love you (being me) etc etc etc...

Now the ONE reason why I don't know if should go for this one is like this:

Last week I was at a halloween party with her. Everyone was crunked and having a good time. I'm kinoing this girl ya no doin ma DJ thing and I walked away for liek 20 mins and came back and shes like HI TODD and kissed me on the lips (not sure if it was by accident or not) but then when my friend was like whoa did you h/u with him shes like nope nevvvvvverr (kinda in a joking way)

So my question is this...should i NEXT her or still try to pursue her at this homecoming party.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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immrtlwun

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Don't pursue her. If she's that interested in you, she'll probably look for you at the party. If she doesn't come up to you, just start casual conversation and if it feels right, escalate it and see what you can get.
 
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I wouldnt recommend activly pursuing anyone. just make contact with everyone (including her) and try to get some laughs. that way if she doesnt go after you, your night isnt shot. but if she does, good for you.
 
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