Ohh well I was a week behind....

[DJ follower]

Well some of you might have read my prevous prob with this one girl. Today I was going to ask her to homecoming but then I find out she is taken... I was a week behind!! So now my plan is to use the c&f strategy and then make my move at the dance. Hopefully she will leave the dance with me If you guys dont think i should do this tell me. Or just post any suggestions you have.

 

[jakeyboy]

ok mate... just dont hatch up some scatter brained scheme to make sure she goes home with you at the end of the night. do your thing on her... and if it happens, it happens, take her home and be glad... but dont expect anything. you may be disappointed you hear?

theres this one stupid thing i did though back when i was in high school. was in the same situation as you. did something really dumb but she liked it so oh well. went on stage and sang a song for her... you know... save the last dance for me? that old song. anyways, she really liked me for it.. and ended up going home with me :d haha.. those good old days.

 

[Heizen]

Dont go there with expectations.

This is something you have to learn; you cannot tell yourself "Well, I hope I leave the dance with her" because no matter how much you tell yourself it wont matter if you dont leave with her, you will feel bummed anyways if you say that.

So here is what you should do:
1.Find a group to go to homecoming with (Social proof)
2.Spend some time with friends, dancing with other girls if need be.
3.Talk to the girl, use C&F, kino, blah blah, and if it feel right then go for it.

But dont tell yourself "I hope I leave with her" because that will just be setting yourself up for a letdown. Just do what you do, and if it happens, then whoop dee do. If you arnt feeling it, find some other girls on the dance floor

 

[DJ follower]

lol i did not mean ill take her with me to my place... I just ment to say that Ill be the one leaving with her insted of her ugly ass bf. She is going out with guy that looks like a ****ing ass. and im not the only one that thinks that... lots of girls think that too. but yea Ill try to dance with her and make a good impression. My friends are telling me to try to kiss her but I dono if thats takin it too far... bacause she does have a date.