"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh wow....f_ck her.

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Banged a girl a while back, suffered performance anxiety and couldn't keep it up. Was mildy embarrassed to say the least but she was dry as the sahara at times.

Regardless, I now found out she's told my nosy housemate her side of events that happened that nigh whilst two mates of mine were also in the room. :cuss:

F_ck knows why she did, but f_ck her. The irony being I know she wants to bang again and maybe have something more but she hasn't got a f_cking prayer right now. :box:

*****es be cray
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Albatross953

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It happens dude. Its tough to keep your head on straight sometimes with a new chick.
My advice on her talking? Don't say or do anything. Anyone who's gonna give you a rough ride on this is an ahole.
She probably is just hurt, thinking she couldn't excite you...let it go.
 

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It's always a good sign when a girl is talking about you. Be it good or bad.

It's when they're not talking about you that you want to be worried.
 

Dan08

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Albatross953 said:
It happens dude. Its tough to keep your head on straight sometimes with a new chick.
My advice on her talking? Don't say or do anything. Anyone who's gonna give you a rough ride on this is an ahole.
She probably is just hurt, thinking she couldn't excite you...let it go.
Aye it's a fair point mate, thanks for the advice. My housemate was asking questions like why did it happen, didn't I think she was hot etc. clearly digging around for this girl to see if there's interest there still.

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It's always a good sign when a girl is talking about you. Be it good or bad.

It's when they're not talking about you that you want to be worried.
True say, I knew my housemate was going over last night so I'd get a mention, particularly because this housemate says this close friend wants the D so I guess the conversation was something like does he like me even tho when we last banged his **** didn't work aha.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women tend to take it really personally. They are all insecure in the first place, so they tend to blame themselves. She feels unattractive, which is why she has the need to lash out at you with gossip.
 

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Tell everyone her (l) stinks and that's why you had a problem. Put that sh!t back on her. Or just let it go...
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Women tend to take it really personally. They are all insecure in the first place, so they tend to blame themselves. She feels unattractive, which is why she has the need to lash out at you with gossip.
same thing i thought.

she probably thought u didnt get a hard on cuz she thought you didnt find her atractive/sexually atraactive etc. i guarantee you this made her hampster spin with flown insecurities... smh
 
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