Oh Sh!t!

[Zunder]

Been having a "burning" sensation in my dik when passing urine for the last week.
So last night I go to the clinic.
Doctor says I may have herpes or Non-specific urethea.
I got no sores on my **** - just a slight swelling at the tip where you "piss" out of along with the burning sensation.
The gave me drugs for both conditions, a blood test and told me to come back in a week for my results.
I have been googling images of herpes and mine looks absolutlely nothing like in the pics.
She said I would have caught off the girl I last had sex with, probably from oral sex. The last girl was the POF chick I wrote about.
They told me not to worr as herpes is no big deal and you can live a normal life! Like yeah I don't think so! They also said I may never get syptoms again.
I am still flumoxed - my dik looks normal apart from the tiny swelling on inside of my tip of my dik - no yellow scaley sweling either - justa very slight swelling, but they still were adamant it may be herpes.
Will report back in a week - cross your fingers for me brothers.

(note, I initally posted this in DJ Tips by mistake - can a mod remove it from that for me please).

 

[window]

I think you are worrying too much, could easily be some type of infection...if you go to an std clinic you get "could be herpes" if you go to a gp "could be an infection"....wait and see.

 

[Zunder]

Well, I took the two antiobiotics last night for the possible Non-specific urethea and the pain passing urine has already subsided SUBSTANTIALLY.
I am hoping their prognosis on herpes was a mistake - I suppose herpes outbreaks are different for all who have them, but a slight (very slight) swelling on the insdie tip of my dik and they assume I could have herpes!
As I said - will find out for sure in a week but they really have put the willies up me.

 

[women haze]

This is why you use a Condom....ugh

These chicks be loose and fast

 

[Zunder]

This is why you use a Condom....ugh

These chicks be loose and fast

Well true - but if it is herpes they are saying it is much more likely I got it off her from her mouth when she gave me a blowwjobb.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I had a similar situation two years ago after getting drunk and having unprotected sex with a slvt who grabbed me as I was leaving a bar.
I had red blotches on my knob and the doctor took a quick look and said "herpes". He was a real arsehole about it too.
I mean, my world was caving in and he just blew me off with a herpes prescription and a blood test.
My brother has herpes and was suicidal for years due to the stigma attached to it. He's ok now and found himself a loving, understanding girlfriend.

Anyway, I got a second opinion from a specialist VD clinic and it turned out to be nothing so my advice would be to get a second opinion.

Maybe these cvnt GPs just say "herpes" to scare us.

It certainly worked on me though! Condoms all the way.

 

[zekko]

Well true - but if it is herpes they are saying it is much more likely I got it off her from her mouth when she gave me a blowwjobb.

Technically, you're supposed to wear a condom while getting a BJ too (probably more for her protection than yours). But what fun is that?

Maybe these cvnt GPs just say "herpes" to scare us.

Lol, trying to teach the horndogs a lesson perhaps?

 

[Zunder]

Well guys - thanks for your replies, I appreciate them all, I mean that.

The burning sensation is back. I checked my dik this morning - I have one tiny yellow spot on the inside tip of my dik - and it is tiny - but its there. I have no spots, bumps, or sores anywhere else on any part of my genital area - just that spot on the inside tip of dik.

I have been taking special anti-virals for the possible herpes - but they seem to be having no affect.

I have also started getting a dull ache in my balls.

I will find out in a week what really is going on when I go back to the clinic.

In the meantime I have a few things to say....

If I DO ending up having herpes I have no one to blame other than myself, (and those of you that say use condomns are quite right, but doing some research not even condomns always work against the spread of herpes) - I would estimate (conservativley) that I have slept with 100-120 women since I lost my virginity at 16. Actually - for most of those I did wear a condomn - but whatever - when you put your dik on the crap table that often you can't be surprised when the dice finally rolls the wrong way.

I am no player, no stud - not all those women were quality...they ranged in HB scale from 4-8 I guess - most of them one night stands.

Now I face the possible stigma of herpes.
Well boo hoo to me.

A couple months ago, my 11 year old niece (and my god-daughter) was diagnosed with cancer. This really puts things into perspective. I've got a possible skin disease on my dik, and my niece has cancer - I think we all know what is more serious, in fact so much more serious it's beyond a joke.

So whoopty-tee doo - my possible herpses means I will probably never find a woman that will love and accept my condition - could possibly mean I will never have a loving sexual relationship with a woman ever again, possibly means I will never have sex again - well, thats too bad - I still am a healthy male in my early 40's with a whole life to live.

I have things I want to do, goals I want to accomplish, and some herpes virus is not going to stop me.

Yeah sure - I feel a bit down, a bit twisted about all this...with the fact that I may have a virus that carries a stigma like herpes does - even though you may only ever get one attack of it in your life you are compelled to tell any possible sexual partner that you have it.
Before all this - It would have been nice to find ONE decent woman that would love and cherish the good person that I know I am - just ONE - this is the reason I turned to 'game' and the "DJ" fourm - it wasn't really for tips on getting laid - it was for tips on finding, and keeping, a good woman.

I'm still here, I'm still breathing, I'm still healthy, I don't have a terminal disease, I am not 11 years old like my niece and having to have chemo - I really don't have much to bytch about.

I will find a way to experience a life that is fulfilling that does not include women - there is NO WAY a woman will accept having a relationship with a guy with herpes - I mean would you? Would you sleep with a girl who told you she has previously had a herpes attack? So that's that.

There's more to life than sticking your dik into a vagina.

I probably wrote this post more for me than anything - but maybe someone got something out of it.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

This is why you use a Condom....ugh

These chicks be loose and fast

Yeah and so was he. This is as much his fault as it is hers. He picked. She chose.


Regardless, if you do have herpes it's not a big deal. It's a 2 week rash you might get every other year or no visible signs at all. It doesn't make you a worse person, it doesn't kill your braincells. It doesn't turn you into a raging blood thirsty maniac. The only trouble that comes from it is the stigma attached. There's a lot of online herpes communities that are supportive and understanding. Hell, we're even supportive and understanding here. Not saying this because I have it, because I don't. But if you do have it...it's not going to ruin your life.


Edit: and TRUST me, when you find a quality woman who loves, respects, and understands you, she'll be accepting

 

[Poonani Maker]

I've been with over 50 women in the past 2-3 years and haven't caught a thing. I have had concerns a couple of times, tested, and everything negative. The doc said that all the cases he's ever diagnosed as confirmed were from drug addicts, and from high crime areas which are not prevalent in my area. New Zealand may be different.

 

[C-quenced]

Been having a "burning" sensation in my dik when passing urine for the last week.

So have I. In fact I'm running to the clinic right now. Good luck man.

I just hope it isn't anything serious for us as I know we would hate to severely limit the kind of women we would be allowed to sleep with. **** that!

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Zunder,
in my life I have had this several times.....latest only months ago...best thing is really quite miraculous for any urinary tract infection....just involves cutting out Caffeine,Alcohol and Spices then drinking water+boiling up and eating two heads of Broccali a day,as well as most importantly the water it was cooked in,for 30 Days...read about it on Google...I have recommended to MANY people,it worked for all except one ....A Turkish Professor pioneered this,I am told he has a Web Site...I picked my bug up in hospital years ago,I don't think you ever completely get rid of UTI's...anyway you will get next day relief.

 

[Zunder]

Dear Zunder,
in my life I have had this several times.....latest only months ago...best thing is really quite miraculous for any urinary tract infection....just involves drinking water+boiling up and eating two heads of Broccali a day,as well as most importantly the water it was cooked in,for 30 Days...read about it on Google...A Turkish Professor pioneered this,I am told he has a Web Site...I picked my bug up in hospital years ago,I don't think you ever completely get rid of UTI's...anyway you will get next day relief.

What? You even got the tiny ulcer on the inside tip of your penis?

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Sequenced,
Read above,go to STD clinic it is not the clap though...That is like peeing razor blades.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Zunder,
"You even got the tiny ulcer on the inside tip of your penis?"...Didn't spot that detail,sorry....Best get along to a Urologist,contact Collossus.....Is the problem area raw?,if it is then it does rather sound like Herpes....Let's all keep our fingers crossed.

 

[Zunder]

Dear Zunder,
"You even got the tiny ulcer on the inside tip of your penis?"...Didn't spot that detail,sorry....Best get along to a Urologist,contact Collossus.....Is the problem area raw?,if it is then it does rather sound like Herpes....Let's all keep our fingers crossed.

Its a red with a yellow tip.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Zunder,
I saw herpes in the Army,that was open sores,anyway it was a ticket home for one poor Digger,maybe his lucky Day,after that we actually lost a few guys....So read it up on Google,whatever you do,seek medical attention SAP...In my town the local Hospital would see you and look at it...NZ has even better Medical care than we do,so be lucky Mate.

 

[Zunder]

Dear Zunder,
I saw herpes in the Army,that was open sores,anyway it was a ticket home for one poor Digger,maybe his lucky Day,after that we actually lost a few guys....So read it up on Google,whatever you do,seek medical attention SAP...In my town the local Hospital would see you and look at it...NZ has even better Medical care than we do,so be lucky Mate.

Thankyou my Aussie brother.

 

[Colossus]

Lots of medical misinformation on here.

Zunder I PMed you.

Condoms are effective against some STDs but not all. Not herpes. Sorry guys. Current estimates are around 1 in 6 sexually active adults have been infected. However, you can be infected and not have any symptoms, ever. People can also shed the virus asymptomatically. 80% of transmissions happen this way.

Most men carry some strain of HPV (human papiloma virus) as well. No way you can know unless you manifest visible lesions, or your partner has a positive HPV result from her annual Pap smear.

To put it in perspective, many, MANY people have cold sores on their lips occasionally. That is type I herpes. Type I herpes is more mild, and recurs less frequently. Type II is usually associated with genital herpes, but you can get either type on your genitals; from oral sex or regular sex. You dont go around asking every girl you kiss if she has oral herpes do you? Of course not. Because it is a common benign ailment, and so are genital herpes. Obviously the outcomes are much different socially when you have the genital variety. It freaks people out. Again, same virus, different place.

Remember:

Type I- Usually infects the lips, but also genitals.
Mild, recurs less often, if at all.

Type II- Almost always infects the genitals
Recurs more frequently, more severe outbreaks.


It's not the end of the world. Not the best outcome of a sexual encounter, but your life will go on. You just now have the responsibility to inform every future partner, which is daunting, but that's the cost of casual sex.

Not saying you have it, Zunder, just a public service post.

 

[window]

herpes can transfer from the lips to the genitals...the membrane on the penis is so fine that it will easily absorb most virusus. So if a girl is sucking your **** and she has a herpes sore on her lips then there is a good chance you will get genital herpes.