"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh No!! Help Me!

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wootapotky

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Ok so a girl that I'm friends with basically just pronounced her love for me. SH!T. :eek: I don't know how to deal with that. I like her as a friend but nothing else. I don't know what to say back to let her know that it's not reciprocal but that I still think she's a cool friend.

I usually don't come to this board for stuff like this anymore but I can't deal with this kind of stuff.

What should I say back?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jovan

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This girl just proclaimed her love to you... anything you say will seem to her like a rejection if you don't say I love you back to her...

So the best thing you can do is simply say... I like you as a friend but nothing else... which is exactly how you feel...
 
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JPFromTally

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If she's not horribly ugly why not tell her you want a booty call and nothing more.

If she looks like an urangutang then you may just tell her that you're in a "complicated" relationship right now.
 
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Mental

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wootapotky said:
Ok so a girl that I'm friends with basically just pronounced her love for me. SH!T. :eek: I don't know how to deal with that. I like her as a friend but nothing else. I don't know what to say back to let her know that it's not reciprocal but that I still think she's a cool friend.

I usually don't come to this board for stuff like this anymore but I can't deal with this kind of stuff.

What should I say back?
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The girlfriend manuever. If she's a good friend, it probably won't work, as she knows you're life.

Hell, if chicks can lie about having a boyfriend, we can lie and say we have a girlfriend.

That way, you can still be her buddy, just one who is already taken.

If she knows you're single, and thinks you have a problem with women, then KIND honesty is your best bet.
 
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You have a friend that's a girl, and you're "just friends"? Are you sure you're a guy?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How about "thank you"?!?
 
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