"Oh, my god . . ."

[rick6599]

I arranged another girl to call one of my crushes during a new years night. To arrange a meeting, in half hour. There she was, hanging with the couple of girlfriends. When she saw me (she did not expect, nor she can confirm it was me behind the phone call) she said "Oh, my god" in a way one would see a storm approaching. I acted cool , casual, just "Happy New Year" she said the same. Girlfriends were all looking at me , like "What's gonna happen now" I went away, to some other places that night. I wonder what would be the way to make a better change in this cat - and - dog situation. ? Email...phone call... or nothing?

 

[DJ Mission]

Are you for real? You been here since 2002 and you still dont get it?

I arranged another girl to call one of my crushes during a new years night

Sounds like a pu$$y move to me...

I acted cool , casual, just "Happy New Year" she said the same.

Good job...How about some small talk for fvck sakes?

I wonder what would be the way to make a better change in this cat - and - dog situation. ? Email...phone call... or nothing?

Sh1t.If I thought as much as you, my brain would just...turn off!

 

[don_hollow_juan]

Originally posted by rick6599
I wonder what would be the way to make a better change in this cat - and - dog situation. ?

Stop being so desperate.

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by rick6599
Email...phone call... or nothing?

Try suicide.

 

[sexual_intellectual]

hey Rick,

you seem pretty young, judging by your actions and by your crush's reaction, so maybe you haven't totally screwed things up yet.

You need to see her on her own. Call her, ask her out, and have fun together. Take it from there. There's a LOT of info in the DJ Bible. There's a link at the top of the page, if you missed it, its this one:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

Read away, and don't ask any more dumb questions cos when you do, people will take the piss.

 

[Pancho84]

I dont see the cat dog situation here.. its not like shes chasing you, you are setting things up so she can present herself around so you can chase her.. shes obviously not after you
Stop wasting your time, go to the mall or a jazz bar and talk up some worthwhile women
It would have had a MUCH more profound effect had you been with a semi attractive girl and she would have seen it right there and then

get it? lol

 

[klaz]

I arranged another girl to call one of my crushes during a new years night.

Why bother? You're in Amsterdam, there thousands of very attractive women out there. This girl doesn't sound interested, otherwise she'd be the one doing the arranging, or at least the would have had a welcome look on her face when she saw you. This is a dead end. Move on.

If you're still interested (crush is a bad word to use. language structures how you think. Do you want to be crushed/stunned when you see her?) follow sexual_intellectual's advice. There's alot of info there to use. Either way relax about how you think about this girl, or it will bite you in the ass)

 

[SheepSter]

When she said "Oh, my god" you should have replied:

"you can call me Rick"

or "he, that's what you cried out last night"

or "thank you"

I'm just playin (I would probably do it though ), this whole post just felt so awkward I had to comment on it. I just see the picture in my mind: you walk in the room, knowing she's there, and she says "Oh my god". At this point there's nothing really wrong. But then you start to act all cool and casual.

I'm not even going into congruence, BL or putting women on pedestals. Because you clearly don't even grasp the slightest bit of that. What I will do is give you a tip.

Next time something like this happens go sit between two of her GF's and chat them up, have fun and let her know it. Not only are you wetting the panties of two new HB's (yeah right ). Now she also wants a piece of the pie!

Since you're from A'dam too I'll be nice and give you another tip: Never walk away from HB's with the tail between your legs, mark your territory so to speak (gotta love the dog methaphores)

 

[rick6599]

She doesn't phaze me that much.